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Originally Posted by b-gatz

Did you marry (if you are) the first girl you loved?

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I loved about 3,493 guys before I finally got married.

Is there a difference in the love between your husband and the other guys you ever loved? Just curious

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Originally Posted by b-gatz

Is there a difference in the love between your husband and the other guys you ever loved? just curious

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Yes, experience with all kinds of love (selfish, giving, mutual, one-sided, brotherly, passionate, friendship, etc.) produces maturity in a permanent relationship.

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Originally Posted by b-gatz

Did you marry (if you are) the first girl you loved?

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You've never had a relationship with her. You don;' love her, you're obsessed. You dropped it quickly for the girl with the boyfriend when you were told she is off limits, you need to drop this one too.

I'm glad I didn't marry the first guy I thought I loved. Maturity and experience opens your eyes.