Originally Posted by
hiyafolks
I am sorry, but can we first address the fact that you actually 'forgave her' for having sex before you two were even together... You do not have to forgive her, she did absolutely nothing wrong, besides it being illegal, it does not and did not concern you, her feeling like you had to forgive her must make the poor girl feel awful.
I suggest, you get over it. People have sex, there is nothing you can do about it now, besides mope about it. You are 16, you will not be together forever. So when youre in your 20s dating are you going to cry everytime some one has had sex before? No. That would be stupid.
Sorry for the tough love, but that was ridiculous. There is nothing you can do do not dwell on it.