Listen you like weight lifting and history. Like wondergirl said you isn't going to find any girls that are interested in that stuff. I am but I'm different than them. Anyway. Find an activity or a subject that girls find interest in. If you have child development take that. It will help you meet girls and it will also go your way if you want to be a parent. :) get into a subject or take a deep breath and go up to her and just say hi. Find out what interests her. That first hello might be hard but it will get easier :) I been down that road a lot of times. If you need anymore specific help just say so :)