Ask Me Help Desk - Ideas on how to help my friend?

Let's see - aside from the questionable treatment of animals (more than one thread) there's the whole issue of being a 14-year old alcoholic. Anything for attention, good attention, bad attention, any attention - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/addict...us-703612.html

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Originally Posted by odinn7

But see...this is where the problem is....in that other thread, you didn't say "maybe", "possibly"...you claimed you were 3 months pregnant. There is no mistaking if you are 3 months pregnant...maybe, maybe not....at 3 months, you pretty much know it. But now the story changed and there was never any real explanation done by you...you just left it sitting there as it was. So of course, people being people, we're going to suspect you aren't being completely honest with us.

We've seen it here before and we'll see it again. Many kids come here and lie and fabricate stories. Many come here and give stories and then change them. Many come here asking how to help a friend when it isn't really the friend they are talking about.

So you put all that together, add the fact that your story changed without being rationally explained....there you have it.

I'm trying to be reasonable here, and I AM listening to what you are saying. I get where you're coming from, but I am NOT lying. Yes. For a little bit I wondered that I might be pregnant. But I'm not, that whole thing is sorted out. My period had been three months late, that's all. I still haven't had it, and I asked a doctor; he thinks it's just because I'm young. Yeah. I admit, I am nosy as hell, and I always want to help my friends; if your friend asks for your advice/help, of course you will try to help, right? I mean, it was just a question, I didn't expect this big reaction. Besides, that thread has NOTHING to do with this whole situation, really. I wanted to help my friend. It's pointless now, anyway, because we already sorted out that whole mess. Everything's okay, now. Everyone can stop spazzing at me. I've defended myself, and now I'm done trying to prove I'm not a liar. Believe me, don't believe, it's really no difference to me.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Let's see - aside from the questionable treatment of animals (more than one thread) there's the whole issue of being a 14-year old alcoholic. Anything for attention, good attention, bad attention, any attention - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/addict...us-703612.html

Nice... I didn't realize that was her when I read that thread. Good catch.

Are you still an alcoholic or did you stop drinking when either you might have been pregnant... or not?

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Originally Posted by odinn7

Nice...I didn't realize that was her when I read that thread. Good catch.

-_- THAT wasn't me, that was my dad. *sigh* Okay, NOW I'm done.

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Originally Posted by UncloudedEyes

-_- THAT wasn't me, that was my dad. *sigh* Okay, NOW I'm done.

LOL... your dad? Your dad used your account but you didn't bother to mention that until now... ok.

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Originally Posted by odinn7

LOL...your dad? Your dad used your account but you didn't bother to mention that until now...ok.

Fine.

I'm going to ask that this be closed - it may or not happen.

In the meantime Uncloudedeyes, you are taking up a lot of time, time which could be spent helping people who have real problems, real concerns, honest people. People researched your "religious AAA" question at great length, believing that you are 14. People researched Canadian law believing you are pregnant, same with the cousin who is in love with you (or something), your problem with whether to get surgery for your lazy eye, your question about animal rights in Canada (and I did a lot of research on that one), your questions about the health of your rats... and now this.

You are simply taking up space and wasting time when you are unable to be honest. I find it amazing and unbelievable that your father would use your account when your posts are about pregnancy, abortion and a cousin who is in love with you, a subject you discussed with a counsellor only after swearing the counsellor to secrecy.

I don't believe a word you say. As someone said this week, that's not a judgment. That's a fact.

As far as being done here - I think it's a good idea for everyone.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

I'm going to ask that this be closed - it may or not happen.

In the meantime Uncloudedeyes, you are taking up a lot of time, time which could be spent helping people who have real problems, real concerns, honest people. People researched your "religious AAA" question at great length, believing that you are 14. People researched Canadian law believing you are pregnant, same with the cousin who is in love with you (or something), your problem with whether or not to get surgery for your lazy eye, your question about animal rights in Canada (and I did a lot of research on that one), your questions about the health of your rats ... and now this.

You are simply taking up space and wasting time when you are unable to be honest. I find it amazing and unbelievable that your father would use your account when your posts are about pregnancy, abortion and a cousin who is in love with, a subject you discussed with a counsellor after swearing the counsellor to secrecy.

I don't believe a word you say. As someone said this week, that's not a judgment. That's a fact.

Ok.