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  • Jan 1, 2013, 02:13 PM
    Alexink
    Idk there's a girl in my class that I like and she's never talked to me once this year or last year.
  • Jan 1, 2013, 02:21 PM
    fredg
    There is a girl in your class that you like and she has never talked to you? Have you talked to her? I would be nice, respectful, and think of some things to say to her. I wish you the best.
  • Jan 1, 2013, 02:26 PM
    Alexink
    I tried talking to her but either she is mad and she doesn't want to talk that time or she's ignoring me. Thanks for the support but I still believe it won't work again.
  • Jan 1, 2013, 03:08 PM
    ScottGem
    I've merged your threads. Please stop starting new threads to ask the same question.
  • Jan 2, 2013, 04:20 PM
    redgigla
    Hi, is there one girl in particular?
  • Jan 2, 2013, 09:27 PM
    rafiki101
    Don't worry your time will come! I'm sure your firsts years of high school you'll have girls liking you, but focus on school and grades. You have plenty of time to worry about women. You grow up faster than you think
  • Jan 3, 2013, 11:01 PM
    Cocokinnut
    Right... I'm geussing at least half of the people that are
    A. The same people
    B. Guys
    Being A GIRL I can help you. If you want to get a girls to like you DON'T always make the topic her. I know, I know "but other people told me that's what I should do" well don't. Its corny but, not all girls are the same. Personally I LIKE hearing what the guy has to say. I LIKE learning about him. Some girls will feel self-conscious or self-centered. Find out what kind of girl she is first; if she talks non-stop with someone let HER do the talking, if she talks the way you play tennis (back and forth, back and forth) then lucky you! You got a proper talker! if she asks YOU a lot of questions she wants to know about you, so tell her. Girls hate it when she knows nothing about you and yet she can't help but like you. It drives us nuts. BUT DO NOT TELL HER FROM THE DAY YOU WERE BORN TO NOW!! All it is, is she wants to know some personal opinions maybe a couple of storys. NOT YOUR AUTOBIOGRAPHY!!
    (Wondergirl, the first comment dies not apply to you ecept for answer A.)(I don't agree with you)
  • Jan 4, 2013, 04:16 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Cocokinnut View Post
    Right......... I'm geussing at least half of the people that are
    A. The same people
    B. Guys
    Being A GIRL I can help you. If you want to get a girls to like you DON'T always make the topic her. I know, I know "but other people told me that's what I should do" well don't. Its corny but, not all girls are the same. Personally I LIKE hearing what the guy has to say. I LIKE learning about him. Some girls will feel self-conscious or self-centered. Find out what kind of girl she is first; if she talks non-stop with someone let HER do the talking, if she talks the way you play tennis (back and forth, back and forth) then lucky you! You got a proper talker!, if she asks YOU a lot of questions she wants to know about you, so tell her. Girls hate it when she knows nothing about you and yet she can't help but like you. It drives us nuts. BUT DO NOT TELL HER FROM THE DAY YOU WERE BORN TO NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! All it is, is she wants to know some personal opinions maybe a couple of storys. NOT YOUR AUTOBIOGRAPHY!!!!
    (Wondergirl, the first comment dies not apply to you ecept for answer A.)(I don't agree with you)

    This would be a very good response except for two things. First. I don't understand the A. The same people comment. Haven't a clue what you are trying to say. By the way, most of the respondents in this thread are female.

    Second, the OP is a THIRTEEN yr old. You have given good advice for an older male wanting to know how to talk to girls. But at 13 girls or getting a girl to like him should not be upper most in his mind. Children are trying to grow up way to fast in these days. They try to emulate adult behaviors that they are not prepared for.

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