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That doesn't mean you have to rush growing up in other areas. In fact it means you should embrace your childhood even more where you can.

You weren't "dumped". This is the thing about relationships at your age. They are short termed and ephemeral. They aren't real.

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Ok so what would you call it

There was never a real relationship in the first place.

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There was never a real relationship in the first place.

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So him asking me out making me feel special taking me to dinners none if that was real

It wasn't a relationship.

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So him asking me out making me feel special taking me to dinners none if that was real

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At 13 there's no such thing as a romantic relationship. At least there shouldn't be.

I don't understand why you need a boyfriend so much. What is lacking in your life that you have such a burning need to be with someone? Can't you just be on your own for a while, enjoy life, enjoy being a teen?

There are only a few things you absolutely need in life. Air, water, food, a roof over your head, and enough money to provide for those things. But no one "needs" a boyfriend.

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At 13 there's no such thing as a romantic relationship. At least there shouldn't be.

I don't understand why you need a boyfriend so much. What is lacking in your life that you have such a burning need to be with someone? Can't you just be on your own for a while, enjoy life, enjoy being a teen?

There are only a few things you absolutely need in life. Air, water, food, a roof over your head, and enough money to provide for those things. But no one "needs" a boyfriend.

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Happiness is lacking in my life and I never said I need a boyfriend I said I want one you know to kiss in d rain and tell him everything

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Happiness is lacking in my life and I never said I need a boyfriend I said I want one ya know to kiss in d rain and tell him everything

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Boys don't like to kiss in the rain and listen to girls tell them everything. You need to learn what boys like.

A boyfriend won't fill that emotional hole you have.

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Happiness is lacking in my life and I never said I need a boyfriend I said I want one ya know to kiss in d rain and tell him everything

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Wow, that's quite the specific wish list. I've been with my husband since I was 19, over half my life. Not once do I remember kissing in the rain. It certainly wasn't the reason I dated him, or married him.

If there is something lacking in your life, a boyfriend won't fill that void.

You can't always get what you want, you shouldn't always get what you want.

I don't think you're ready to date, just because of that one statement "I want one ya know to kiss in d rain and tell him everything". That to me is a very immature reason to want a boyfriend.

Why not wait until you actually meet someone interesting?

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Wow, that's quite the specific wish list. I've been with my husband since I was 19, over half my life. Not once do I remember kissing in the rain. It certainly wasn't the reason I dated him, or married him.

If there is something lacking in your life, a boyfriend won't fill that void.

You can't always get what you want, you shouldn't always get what you want.

I don't think you're ready to date, just because of that one statement "I want one ya know to kiss in d rain and tell him everything". That to me is a very immature reason to want a boyfriend.

Why not wait until you actually meet someone interesting?

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Eh yea ino its not going to fill it and I have met someone interesting and smart and funny and caring but we tried to go out and it only lasted a year because he moved and it wasn't meant to be but I still reli lyk him

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Boys don't like to kiss in the rain and listen to girls tell them everything. You need to learn what boys like.

A boyfriend won't fill that emotional hole you have.

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Ha so I saw it in a movie and now that's my big dream to kiss a lad in d rain ha and I'm not stupid ino he won't fill that emotional hole on my life ha

You dated, one or both of you decided its wasn't for the long term so you stopped. You will go though this many more times, until you meet someone where it will feel real.

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Ha so I saw it in a movie and now that's my big dream to kiss a lad in d rain ha and I'm not stupid ino he won't fill that emotional hole on my life ha

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Yup. I figured you saw it in a movie. Wrong place to find out about life and love. Movies are fantasies, not real life. Like I said, no lad will kiss you in the rain. Lads don't like to get wet and will think you are going bonkers.

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Ha so I saw it in a movie

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Exactly you saw it in a movie, it looked romantic, but its not REAL!

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Yup. I figured you saw it in a movie. Wrong place to find out about life and love. Movies are fantasies, not real life. Like I said, no lad will kiss you in the rain. Lads don't like to get wet and will think you are going bonkers.

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But I've already done it

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Exactly you saw it in a movie, it looked romantic, but its not REAL!

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How old are you

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You dated, one or both of you decided its wasn't for the long term so you stopped. You will go though this many more times, until you meet someone where it will feel real.

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Both

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Eh yea ino its not goin to fill it and I have met some1 interesting and smart and funny and caring but we tried to go out and it only lasted a year coz he moved and it wasn't ment to be but I still reli lyk him

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So you dated a guy for a year, how long ago was that?
I think you are too young to date. You are lacking something in your life and looking for someone to fill it.

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You are lacking something in your life and looking for someone to fill it.

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Check her other threads. Here's one:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/childr...ud-689185.html

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Check her other threads. Here's one:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/childr...ud-689185.html

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Yep, this is a sad situation.

Hun take your time, having a boyfriend is the last thing you need in your life.

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Yep, this is a sad situation.

Hun take your time, having a boyfriend is the last thing you need in your life.

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How is it a sad situation