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  • Jul 2, 2012, 10:08 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Sum41 View Post
    And one more thing, when people ask questions on this site I am allowed to say my opinion and how I see the solution to be right.

    You can offer your opinion, but if you post something that's against the law you will be corrected. You cannot give harmful advice to anyone on this site, which is what you did.

    Your opinion is only as valid as the facts surrounding it. If you give harmful advice expect to be called on it. This isn't a site where you can say whatever you want. We're a question and answer site, and people come here to get actual advice, not a child's opinion.

    If you want to continue posting on this site stick to facts. You can't just say "My mommy lets me, so go ahead". That's not how real life works.
  • Jul 2, 2012, 10:09 PM
    Sum41
    What I meant about my parents was that I was taught that there's nothing wrong with early dating because kids experiment! That's why I see it that way.

    Sharni, you should try talking to you mom and ask her how she feels about dating! Maybe this will be your answer! :)
  • Jul 2, 2012, 10:11 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Sum41 View Post
    What I meant about my parents was that I was taught that there's nothing wrong with early dating because kids experiment! That's why I see it that way.

    Sharni, you should try talking to you mom and ask her how she feels about dating! Maybe this will be your answer! :)

    The last part of this post is the right answer. Now you're learning. :)

    The OP should talk to her parents about this. But, if mom and dad say it's okay she still can't date the boy until his parents also agree.
  • Jul 2, 2012, 10:17 PM
    Sum41
    I wasn't giving illegal advice! Dating a 20 year old is illegal when you're 14 but we didn't talk about that..

    In the end, everyone does what they feel is right. I think that if you don't already know, ask your parents if they allow dating.Then you know what to do (if to date or not)

    To me, some age may be younger than another, but a 5 year old thinks he's quite mature doesn't he? Everyone thinks they know best. I think everyone should have their own experience but that's what **I feel** meaning I feel it and I don't mean everyonr should be thinking this. You're getting me all wrong!
  • Jul 2, 2012, 10:21 PM
    Sum41
    Yayy I'm learning! Haha

    Yes, obviously if his parents won't let hom date then she can't date him..
  • Jul 2, 2012, 10:44 PM
    Curlyben
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  • Jul 4, 2012, 02:28 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Sum41 View Post
    What I meant about my parents was that I was taught that there's nothing wrong with early dating because kids experiment! That's why I see it that way.

    I had to respond to this. Just because your parents are too liberal and permissive doesn't make it right. In fact, I would argue that your parents need to wake up to the real world and put some limits on their children before it is too late.

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