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  • Jun 19, 2012, 06:55 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    This is how grow men who want young underage kids do it. They tell them they are too young, but guess what, a nice man stops texting, stops email, and stops Facebook. They would not spend time on children.

    But the men who do, those are the ones who gain your trust, make you feel speical and may for months get you ready where they have your trust and then make their move to have sex with you.

    Every thing he has done, and I mean everything is exactly how they all work. I bet he would not want you to tell mom and dad about it, or show them his messages
  • Jun 19, 2012, 07:31 PM
    Alty
    Bingo! It's so true.

    He knows you're a child. He knows that you're underage. If he wasn't a pedophile, he wouldn't be contacting you, in any way shape of form, and he definitely wouldn't be telling you that he's interested in you.

    This guy is a creep! I should know. I've met a few in my lifetime.

    I know you're only 14, so you don't have the sense God gave a goat, but there are lessons in life that you don't have to learn the hard way.

    I dare you to wait. Give it 4 years. Tell him that you can't date right now, but when you're an adult, you'd love to date him. Watch him run away so fast that your head will spin.

    In 4 years you won't remember his name. I bet on it.

    Be the smart one. Don't let this creep get his claws into jail bait.
  • Jul 31, 2012, 12:51 PM
    Merp_lova
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by slapshot_oi View Post
    I bet he does. Rule of thumb: girls like older guys and guys know this and sometimes use it to their advantage. I have a feeling that's what's happening here, he's just toying with you because he knows he has you wrapped around his finger. He'll have to wait 4 years before you guys can even consider a relationship, a lot will happen in that time, so don't expect much. It's not what you want to hear but it's the truth.


    lol not the case, I wish it were.

    Hey! You gave me great advice on here so can u pilz help me with one of my other questions in here plzz!! <33 it would mean so much
  • Jul 31, 2012, 02:11 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Ok before u all jump to the conclusion that he is a petafile... Hes not
    If he's the same guy you just had sex with;

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-...ce-687453.html

    Then you, he is a pedophile.
  • Jul 31, 2012, 02:21 PM
    Merp_lova
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    If he's the same guy you just had sex with;

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-...ce-687453.html

    Then ya, he is a pedophile.

    Its not it's a diff guy, I still talk to the 20. But u were wrong there is no sexual attraction there anymore... like were just friends.. but yea this is a diff guy
  • Jul 31, 2012, 02:22 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Merp_lova View Post
    its not it's a diff guy, I still talk to the 20. But you were wrong there is no sexual attraction there anymore... like were just friends.. but yea this is a diff guy

    A different guy that you stated is older. How old is he?

    Quote:

    Btw he's older and way more experienced.
    You sure do get around, and you fall in and out of love very easily.
  • Jul 31, 2012, 03:02 PM
    Merp_lova
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    A different guy that you stated is older. How old is he?



    You sure do get around, and you fall in and out of love very easily.

    Ummi really don't get around and he's 17
  • Jul 31, 2012, 03:42 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Merp_lova View Post
    ummi really dont get around and hes 17

    Sure you do. A month ago you were madly in love with the 20 year old. Now, a month later you've fallen in love with a 17 year old, and had sex with him.

    Sorry, but the fact that you're 14, jumping from one guy to another, and having sex when you've only known this guy for a short time (either that or you were cheating on him with the 20 year old), well, there's a word for girls like that.

    Hope the 17 year old knows that he's committed rape. Is he willing to go to jail for his "love"?

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