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Originally Posted by K412

See our plan is to just stay together as long as possiable and keep it on the down low. We are not horny little kids we are young adults inlove. We want to get married one day and i hope thats what happens.

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Oh please? At 15 I wouldn't consider you a young adult, especially if you think you're in love with a 12 year old.

If you at 15 consider yourself a your adult, then you are a pedophile since a 12 year old is a child, there is no way to try and pretend they are not.

You are both immature children who do not know how to control their hormones and are confusing being horny with love.

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Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace

Oh please? At 15 I wouldn't consider you a young adult, especially if you think you're in love with a 12 year old.

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You don't have to be a about it and I am a young adult. You are probably single and desperae as hell.

I need advice not people telling me I'm a pedophile. Besides 3 years is legal.

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Originally Posted by K412

I need advice not people telling me im a pedophile. Besides 3 years is legal.

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Would you post that law for me?

I'm working on the relationship - the 12-year old bride to be is his father's girlfriend's sister. I note that the 12 year old is NOT a horny little kid but a responsible adult. I don't know if that's important - but I note it.

Father marries the girlfriend and the girlfriend becomes OP's stepmother.

The stepmother's sister becomes his aunt.

He marries his aunt (by marriage). He's his own uncle - or something.

NOW - their concern is their parents. I'm assuming his father is, give or take, he's 15, 35 or older. The father's girlfriend has a 12-year old sister. So - let's say the girlfriend is 24.

I have no idea where I was going with this and I have a headache.

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Originally Posted by K412

You dont have to be a about it and i am a young adult. you are probably single and desperae as hell.

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This is a classic! It's DESPERATE. Somehow your lack of capitalization and bad spelling took the sting out of the insult.

And, yes, Cobra - confess up! Are you single and desperate as Hell?

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Originally Posted by K412

I need advice not people telling me im a pedophile. Besides 3 years is legal.

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No one said you were, but if you want to consider yourself an adult, then you need to be aware of the consequences. I also find it interesting that you seem to be aware of what the law might be. That indicates you have been considering having sex with a 12 yr old. (EEEWWW).

Whether you have the law right we don't know unless you tell us what state you are in.

The thing is you have gotten advice, Good advice, but you seem to want to ignore that advice.

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Originally Posted by K412

I need advice not people telling me im a pedophile. Besides 3 years is legal.

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Three years when the youngest is the legal age of consent, is legal. At 15 and 12, you're not even close.

You can keep arguing, but the facts are the facts. Unless both your parents consent to the two of you dating, you can't legally date. Nothing you say is going to change that fact.

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

No one said you were, but if you want to consider yourself an adult, then you need to be aware of the consequences. I also find it interesting that you seem to be aware of what the law might be. That indicates you have been considering having sex with a 12 yr old. (EEEWWW).

Whether you have the law right we don't know unless you tell us what state you are in.

The thing is you have gotten advice, Good advice, but you seem to want to ignore that advice.

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It doesn't have anything to do with sex it has to do with how long I have to hide my relationship with her.

Welp I've came to my sense ima try to hold off till she hits 18. Then ill try to pick back up where we left off thanks for the advice and sorry for being rude to some of you.

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Originally Posted by K412

It doesnt have anything to do with sex it has to do with how long i have to hide my relationship with her.

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You're not listening at all, are you? A true sign of how mature you aren't. Mature people listen to people that are older and wiser than they are. You should try it.

You can't hide your relationship with her. That would be illegal. You need parental consent to date her. In fact, you both need parental consent to date. If you date her without parental consent, you're in for a world of trouble. Her parents finding out would be the least of your worries. There are laws.

Are you getting it yet? If you want to date her, your mom and dad have to agree, and so do hers. That's the only way the two of you will be allowed to date.

Like I said I'm going to wait till she is 18 that wayit is legal.

What's legal at 18? I thought you were asking about dating. "Legal" at 18 sounds like you are asking about having sex with a 12-year old.

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Originally Posted by K412

You dont have to be a about it and i am a young adult. you are probably single and desperae as hell.

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Sorry kid, but a 15 year old is not a young adult. You would be, in a year if you didn't think you were in love and willing to wait for someone until you're 18. Give it a couple years, she'll be just another girl you dated. I've seen it time and time again.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

This is a classic! It's DESPERATE. Somehow your lack of capitalization and bad spelling took the sting out of the insult.

And, yes, Cobra - confess up! Are you single and desperate as Hell?

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As for me being single and desperate? I'm not, and damn proud of it. My high school sweetheart is laying in bed right now, about to wake up to the warm smell of coffee and pancakes.

Sorry to burst your bubble.
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Originally Posted by K412

Welp ive came to my sense ima try to hold off till she hits 18. Then ill try to pick back up where we left off thanks for the advice and sorry for being rude to some of you.

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{FONT=Sarcasm} Well that was real sincere {/Font}

But you don't have to go that far. All you need to do is ask both sets of parents whether they approve of your dating. If they agree, then go ahead as long as there is no sex involved. If they don't agree, ask how old or what under conditions they would allow it. If they say wait a few years, then wait.

Okay obviously there are plenty of grown people telling you this is wrong. You're going to do what you're going to do. But think about it, the adults on here have been trough your developmental stage and more. We are speaking from experience. It's hard to believe, however it's true. Break it off, and if the feelings are real, they will still be there after you both have grown some and lived life a little bit. Then you can address those feelings as adults.

Well age will nevr matter my parents were 17 yrs apart so the little difference doesn't matter and if you don't want to tell them then don't but sooner or later your going to have to but make sure you guys are true love.

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Originally Posted by andrea-grace

well age will nevr matter my parents were 17 yrs apart so the little difference doesnt matter and if you dont want to tell them then dont but sooner or later your going to have to but make sure you guys are true love.

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So your parents started dating when your mother was 12?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

So your parents started dating when your mother was 12?

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No. I was just saying that 3 yrs apart is nothing.

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Originally Posted by andrea-grace

No. i was just saying that 3 yrs apart is nothing.

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You're right, 3 years apart is nothing. But at 15 and 12, it is a lot.