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Originally Posted by jay-lynn11

im 14
well idk what his friends would think they hate me and he lives for his friends

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Well if he lives for his friends and they hate you, why do you even want him back? Sounds like too much drama to me.
You're 14. There will be other boys.

And could you not write in text?

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Originally Posted by jay-lynn11

im sorry i couldn't i was to shy :(

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Then you've made your choice.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Well if he lives for his friends and they hate you, why do you even want him back? Sounds like too much drama to me.
You're 14. There will be other boys.

And could you not write in text?

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His friends don't like me but they got along with me and he liked/still likes me I talked with him today he knows how I feel but he doesn't want to tell me how he feels he says he might later, I can't text him my little brother broke my cell

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Originally Posted by jay-lynn11

his friends dont like me but they got along with me and he liked/still likes me i talked with him today he knows how i feel but he doesn't want to tell me how he feels he says he might later, i can't text him my little brother broke my cell

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He might tell you later? What kind of mess is that!
That is silly. So what are you going to do wait around until he makes up his mind to tell you if he still likes you?

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

He might tell you later? What kind of mess is that!
That is silly. So what are you going to do wait around until he makes up his mind to tell you if he still likes you?

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Good point I should just give up, he probably hates me, what's the point of loving someone when they hate you

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Originally Posted by jay-lynn11

good point i should just give up, he probly hates me, whats the point of loving someone when they hate you

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Ah, teen drama.

You should just give up, but not because you think he hates you. You should give up because you obviously can't handle a relationship. You can't even talk to him, you're "too shy". So give up on him, get a backbone, and try again when you're a bit older and a lot more mature.

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Originally Posted by Alty

Ah, teen drama.

You should just give up, but not because you think he hates you. You should give up because you obviously can't handle a relationship. You can't even talk to him, you're "too shy". So give up on him, get a backbone, and try again when you're a bit older and a lot more mature.

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I'm to shy because I'm scared I'm going to hurt him again I'm the one who broke up with him he forgave me right after but I said something wrong that I dident mean to say and I don't want to hurt him its bad enuff his dads dying,I want to be there for him I really do, if he does hate me then what?

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Originally Posted by jay-lynn11

good point i should just give up, he probably hates me, whats the point of loving someone when they hate you

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I doubt he hates you. He is all of what 14 or 15. He probably is just being a teenage boy. You are too young to date anyway and as shy as you are and as desperate as you seem about this boy, you can be easily taken advantage of.
Leave him alone.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I doubt he hates you. He is all of what 14 or 15. he probably is just being a teenage boy. You are too young to date anyway and as shy as you are and as desperate as you seem about this boy, you can be easily taken advantage of.
Leave him alone.

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I'm to shy because I'm scared I'm going to hurt him again I'm the one who broke up with him he forgave me right after but I said something wrong that I dident mean to say and I don't want to hurt him its bad enuff his dads dying,I want to be there for him I really do, if he does hate me then what?

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Originally Posted by jay-lynn11

im to shy because im scared im going to hurt him again im the one who broke up with him he forgave me right after but i said something wrong that i dident mean to say and i dont want to hurt him its bad enuff his dads dieing,i want to be there for him i really do, if he does hate me then what?

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I doubt he hates you, but the fact is, you aren't ready to date. Everything you've posted on this thread has shown that you're not ready.

I would give up trying to get him back as a boyfriend, and try to be his friend instead. But, you will have to talk to him if you want to be his friend.

I understand being shy. I was very shy as a teen. But really, what's the worst that can happen if you talk to him? He either falls into your arms telling you how much he misses you, or tells you he just wants to be friends, or tells you to leave him alone forever. No matter what he says, you won't be any worse off than you are now.

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Originally Posted by Alty

I doubt he hates you, but the fact is, you aren't ready to date. Everything you've posted on this thread has shown that you're not ready.

I would give up trying to get him back as a boyfriend, and try to be his friend instead. But, you will have to talk to him if you want to be his friend.

I understand being shy. I was very shy as a teen. But really, what's the worst that can happen if you talk to him? He either falls into your arms telling you how much he misses you, or tells you he just wants to be friends, or tells you to leave him alone forever. No matter what he says, you won't be any worse off than you are now.

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We talked to day at lunch like normal friends it was great I told him I have to give him a note because I can't say what I want to say in front of him cause I can't think when I'm around him he said OK so I'm writing it to him he says he'll do the same to tell me how he feels is that a good thing or a bad thing

I supposed it's what kids your age do. If it works, that's good but at some point you are going to have to talk to each other. You guys are not ready to date, or hold enough for that matter.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I supposed it's what kids your age do. If it works, that's good but at some point you are going to have to talk to each other. You guys are not ready to date, or hold enough for that matter.

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I'LL tell you if it works on tuseday all the gr 8's are leaveing tmo for there end of year trip to ottawa and will be back on Monday so I'll give the note to him then k

Good luck

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Good luck

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Tomorrow I give him the note I'm nervice

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Originally Posted by jay-lynn11

tomorow i give him the note im nervice

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Nervous. I'd spell check the note before you give it to him. ;)

Don't be nervous. Whatever happens, happens. At least you tried. That's all you can do.

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Originally Posted by Alty

Nervous. I'd spell check the note before you give it to him. ;)

Don't be nervous. Whatever happens, happens. At least you tried. That's all you can do.

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My friend had to give the note to him I've been home sick I still am sick so on Monday ill tell you what he said

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Originally Posted by Alty

Nervous. I'd spell check the note before you give it to him. ;)

Don't be nervous. Whatever happens, happens. At least you tried. That's all you can do.

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It dident go well at all :'( he riped it up in my face and yelled till I cryed I should have done nothining I thank you for the good advice

I'm sorry that happened. Hopefully now you know where you stand with him and you can move on.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I'm sorry that happened. Hopefully now you know where you stand with him and you can move on.

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His new girlfriend also yelled at me I'm getting over him slowly but I'm doing better then I was when he and she did that