My exhusband constantly lied even about really minor things, it is a pet hate of mine but then I am told that I am to honest for my own good I guess there is a balance out there hope you find it!

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If you was to cheat on your boyfriend would you tell him or keep it a secret. This is just a question to find out how many different answers i get. My girlfriend and i are happy togather and she would tell me if she was cheating on me. i know that for a fact.

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if I was in that situation, I would totally tell him. Not for the fact that I cheated on him but just out of respect for my boyfriend. Even if it hurts I have to tell him. Plus, if you do cheat on your boyfriend there must be a reason why and something might be going wrong in the relationship. So the best thing to do to avoid this situation is to talk out everything and all the feelings that each person in the relationship has

ps= I've never cheated either lol

I'd break up with him cheating is the worst thing to do

I'm trans female to male does that count as a girl

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Originally Posted by chipmunk2921

If you was to cheat on your boyfriend would you tell him or keep it a secret. This is just a question to find out how many different answers i get. My girlfriend and i are happy togather and she would tell me if she was cheating on me. i know that for a fact.

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I have never cheated on a boy so I don't know

for me it all depends on how serious the relationship is. but if i truely cared for this person i would tell them. but if you truely care for them you wouldnt do it in the first place!

The truth hurts a lot but its better than living with a huvering cloud of guilt! HONESTY,people its amazing!

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Originally Posted by chipmunk2921

If you was to cheat on your boyfriend would you tell him or keep it a secret. This is just a question to find out how many different answers i get. My girlfriend and i are happy togather and she would tell me if she was cheating on me. i know that for a fact.

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That depends... if I decided I never would do it again, that it was a mistake... then I wouldn't tell him, because it would only make him not trust me, when I knew he could. If I was going to continue cheat, id tell him then break up, becasuse he would find out eventually anyway

I would tell him! Its no good keeping things as they always come out in the end! But would you lads tell the truth or keep it? I know some people that would lie! I've had it done to me before!

Well one of my friends is cheating and know I just look at her like she's a slut... she has to boyfriends and a lover... I think that its wrong and I wouldn't do that to anybody no matter who it was...

If I had time before I hit self-destruct.

I don't handle guilt well. Who knows what I'd do?

I Would Tell Him I Wouldn't Be Able To Liuve With Myself Knowing I Did Something Like That

I wouldn't do it period I don't care who it is.. I still wouldn't do it

I have cheated on my boyfriend a few times (this is all down to alcohol!) and every time I've told him I've had to have a drink because I've not had the guts to tell him sober! :(
I have had no idea why I did it... but if your g/f goes out drinkib with ova people or hangs about with loads of other lads be concerned. If it kills you and you want to know say to your girlfriend "I love you so much and i trust you with my life but i want to know if there is someone else because being with you has been too good to be true...honestly and even if you haven't which i doubt you have cheated on me i just want you to be able to tell me!" if you say something along them line it'll be fine because:

A. You've told her you trust her
B. You've told her you love her
C. You haven't shouted at her
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D. You've let her know that you want to be told!

That way ahe wouldn't feel so scared if she ever has cheated on you!

OK then sounds like my friend kayla harmon...

There would be nothing to tell, I wouldn't cheat full stop. Its happened to me in every relationship I have been in except the one I am in now, hurts like hell and I wouldn't want to cause that pain to someone else,sorry I couldn't give an answer to the question though

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If you was to cheat on your boyfriend would you tell him or keep it a secret. This is just a question to find out how many different answers i get. My girlfriend and i are happy togather and she would tell me if she was cheating on me. i know that for a fact.

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Whoever would cheat on their boyfriend and not tell them isn't worth it. No way in hell.

Well I did cheat on my last boyfriend it was only a snog but I didn't tell him but I wish I did cause we had a big row and I chucked it in his face he told me if I just told him he would have understand we didn't talk for like a month and he said some really nasty things. We are now back to geter and happy and if it happened again I would tell him 100% so its beter to be honsted!

Well.. I would tell my boyfriend... we've been together for over a year and I trust him and he trusts me. If he cheated he would tell me.. and I would do the same.. but I don't think that would happen

I have to be honest, it's what you want, right?

I wouldn't tell. Granted, I probably wouldn't even do it in the first place, but if I did I wouldn't tell.

I'm a pretty honest person, which is why I wouldn't do it to begin with, but I wouldn't tell. If I felt really guilty about doing it I'd probably just break up with the person for a different reason.

Maybe it makes me sound like a jerk, but at least I'm being truthful with myself I guess.