We aren't having no romanic relationship ! Final.

It is very odd and inappropriate for a 21 year old to tell a 15 year old that he loves her. There should not even be an opportunity for such conversations to be taking place. That kind of conversation implies a certain intimacy which is just wrong between your ages.

I have a feeling you are trying to cover his butt. Hopefully he will also see he needs to leave you alone.

If you are not having a physcial relationship you will, at 21 he is or should be thinking of a more long term relationship, not going to a high school prom in 3 years when he is 24. He would most likely have more in common with your mom than you in a dating situation.

He is as close to a child molestor as I can judge playing on your young age.

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Originally Posted by crazygirl_ily

we arent having no romanic relationship ! final.

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So when you implied he was in love with you in your OP that was fiction or just wishful thinking on your part? He has never said he loves you or given any indication that he has any romantic feelings for you?

If so, then fine, no relationship exists so your original question is moot.

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Originally Posted by crazygirl_ily

we are NOT going out !! we dont see eachother we dont talk about having a relationship at all ! He respects me and we are really good friends because we know we can't be together

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Hmm... your original question was "Im 15 Years Old In Love With A 21 Yr Old. Is It Bad If We Both Love Eachother?". You said you were 'in love' with him and implied many times that he showed a romantic interest in you also.

Now people are starting to express concern for you and this "relationship" and it does seem like you are trying to cover his back because you have realised that it's wrong. If that is what you are doing then please don't waste our time like that, be honest - its not like any of us can trace this guy or care to waste our time doing so!

Saying that, however... I think I understand your situation... are you saying that you and a 21 year old guy both FANCY each other but are not in a relationship?

If so then as long as no relationship occurs, there is nothing wrong with that. Even if you were in a relationship there'd be nothing illegal unless sexual activity took place.
However I doubt your usage of the word "love". It takes a proper relationship, and time, to fall in love. I think what you are describing is a crush. I had a massive crush on someone 5 years older than myself when I was 12. I thought I loved him. Then I fell in love for real, and I laughed at myself for thinking I loved the other guy. Honestly, you aren't in love at this point. One day you will realise that, when you fall in love with someone.
I know that there is no telling you that now, but one day you will realise that I, and the other people on this thread, are right.

I also know there's no point saying that in a few months time you'll probably be totally over this and consider yourself a bit of a prat for making a deal out of it this way, and the two of you will either no longer know each other or no longer fancy each other.
Since I know there's no point trying to convince you of this, I am going to compromise with you.

Wait for a few years (2 or 3 at least), and if you still feel the same way, then, and ONLY THEN the age gap will no longer matter.