So I jiyst came out with it and told my mum she's going ape at the moment I had to go to my room to get aaway from her. Oh my god she's going mental I hope she doesn't tell dad.I suppose I can't blame her for being mad at me but I can't take this I need to get out of here let her calm down I've never heard my mum swear before I thought she would br mad but I ve never seen her so angry.I don't think it was such a good idea telling her

It's the shock,I think she'll calm down ,give her time-do you have school today?
Is there a school nurse you could go and talk to?

No school has finished for the day she won't even let me out the house I suppose I can understand but I'm tripping out I need to get away from her

Omg I'm so happy you told her! Don't worry, she will calm down, now you can get the help you need, well done!

I think you'd best wait for her to calm down,remember you did the right thing.

I don't know I think its just worse now she's crying I don't know what to say to her I said I'm sorry but she just keeps on crying I don't know what to do

Just stay in your room until she is ready to talk, she WILL talk to you, just leave her to let it all out, its best that she's like this now, she's obviously taking it serious, this is all good even though it doesn't seem like it.

(can't rep,Z)
Advice is right,your mum's reaction is normal but let it all sink in and it'll be OK.
She loves you,and she's your mum.

Hey

I understand your problem... Listen you can start this way:

"Mom, Dad.. I need to tell you guys something important. Please don't be mad, I really need your help......" and then start with how you met those people and how it first started.. I know how you feel.. I'm pretty scared of telling my parents something myslef!

Good luck ;) <3

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Originally Posted by Reemyz

Hey

I understand your problem... Listen you can start this way:

"Mom, Dad.. I need to tell you guys something important. Please don't be mad, I really need your help......" and then start with how you met those people and how it first started.. I know how you feel .. I'm pretty scared of telling my parents something myslef!

Good luck ;) <3

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If you read the whole thread you would see that the op has told her parents... :rolleyes:

Well done for telling your mom, that took guts, your braver then you thought you were.

Now your life is going to change, its going to get better, your free.

Your free from the worry and torment of getting money for drugs and trying to figure all this out.

Your family is going through a lot of stress, and your mom is trying to keep everything together, this is a shock for her, BUT, I'm betting once the shock has worn off she's going to be your best ally is fighting any addiction.

As hard as it is to stay where you are, I urge you to stay, answer any questions she has, even though telling the truth may make you feel like crap and not wanting to hurt her, but tell the truth, listen to her, she's needs answers now to help you.

The truth shall set you free! Take whatever she throws at you if she does, then help her help you.

Yeah I noticed after I wrote my answer...
Anyway it might help someone else :)

I don't know if I should tell her everything that I did I feel that maybe just her dealing with the drugs is enough I don't want her to totally freak.Im not even allowed to go to school I have to stay in my room until she sorts things out. Im kind of really stressed out I need to be able to get out of here for a bit but she won't let me I can't even get out of my window she locked it and took the key.im so stressed out

Are you having any withdrawal problems?

What had you done to get money? Theft? Prostitution?

I am just really freaking out being locked in my room I can't take being in here I yelled for mum to let me out but she won't I need to leave.My drug dealer I use to sleep with him for a hit or do other things I was stealing from shops at the beginning but then I didn't have to.God I need to get out of here I'm freaking out how cani get her to let me out?>

Why do you need to leave? You came clean to your mother. Give her time to sort this all out.

I need to get out of this room I can't take it if sh ewould just let me out then id be OK but I can't just sit here in this tiny room anymore I've tried to get her to let me out but she's locked the friging door and I've yelled out to her but she won't answer I'm about to smash the frigging window I need to get out of here

I can't do this anymore I shouldn't of told her I really need to leave

Are these withdrwal symptoms?
Ask your mother to call the doctor.

She won't listen to me she said I need to stay in my room until she sorts things out. I can't stay in here its driving me insane I need to get out of this room I tired to tell her I even lost it crying but she won't let me out she said I'm better of in my room for now I friging hate her right now if she doesn't let me out I'm just going to have to break the door or window I'm so frustrated right now I don't have anything left in my room to smash I feel bad but I need to get out of here