Ask Me Help Desk - My Girlfriend and I are both Virgins?

Comment on justcurious55's post

Lol... hahah I love this anSwer!!

Comments on talaniman's post

I know right ? So what are you going to tell YOUR daughter?lol

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I know right ? So what are you going to tell YOUR daughter?lol

I don't know what tal would tell his daughter. But if I were this girl's parents, I'd be telling her she'd better stay away from you or I was getting the police involved. Depending on the exact laws of were you are, you're risking charges like statutory rape and/or contributing to the delinquency of a minor.

I have already told my daughter to stay away from cocky young snots that only want one thing. Then I told her she is the one to pay the costs of a mistake, while they run, and hide.

I have already schooled her into using her brains, and not just her heart, to make good decisions for herself. Not just my daughters but my son, and the nieces, and nephews that I have influenced.

My advice to you young man would be the same. Think with your big head, and educate yourself, before you go in with no knowledge, and do something that turns into a big mistake. Ignorance is no excuse. Look I know your anxious to pop your cherry, and that of your girl friend, but without knowledge to back up your desire, you're just two kids playing with fire.

Maybe you should be talking with your dad, before he has to talk to her parents. You may learn something that you need to know.

Xavi, let's do this a different way, since we're obviously not getting through and all you're giving us is attitude, which just proves you're not mature enough for sex.

How much do you think a baby costs? If you're in the States do you know the cost of actually having the baby, not just caring for it afterwards, but going to the hospital to deliver.

Write a list of what you think the monthly expenses are, than post how much you make every month (be honest) and lets see if you're actually ready to be a dad and provider.

Your going to do it in the car? Nice.

Listen to the advice your given. If you can't even afford a hotel room how can you afford a baby?

Any idiot can have a baby but it takes a real man not too. Which one are you?

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Originally Posted by XaviRaul

My Girlfriend and i are both virgins and we been dating a while now and were thinking of having sex....

1) what should i do if she bleeds??
2) what condoms should i buy ??
3) what positions can we do if we do it in my car??
4) how can i get her very wet ??
5) will i *** fast as a virgin???

The fact that you have to ask us all of these questions, clearly shows that you two aren't ready to play house.

You both are young. You have your whole lives ahead of you. Concentrate on school and getting a good education so that you can conquer the world.

Please be smart and wait.

Comment on Altenweg's post

Hahahaha I'm just laugh at all the answers people tell me hahaha its funny when you put something up and all unknown people say hahahahah

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hahahaha I'm just laugh at all the answers people tell me hahaha its funny when you put something up and all unknown people say hahahahah

So you find our advice funny? I wonder if you'll find it funny at 2am when you're changing your screaming babies diaper while trying to figure out where next months rent is going to come from.

None of what we're telling you is a laughing matter. The fact that you think it is shows how very immature you are.

I hope your girlfriend wises up and finds a boy that is willing to wait until he becomes a man before playing with fire.

In the end the decision is yours. We can't tell you what to do, we can only give you the facts and hope that you're mature enough to listen, to actually read what we're saying and understand that we're only telling you what we know to be true. Sadly you've proven that you are not mature enough to listen to the very wise advice you're getting. I hope you gain that maturity before you become a father.

Something to keep in mind. Yes, we're all adults, but we were all teens once too. I was far from an innocent teen, but I got lucky, very lucky, I didn't get pregnant. I regret the things I did when I was younger. If I could go back I would. It's that experience that is leading to the advice I'm giving you.

I hope that it sinks in. If not, I hope you don't end up regretting it. I hope that your girlfriend doesn't either.

Good luck.

I find it funny someone can have serious romance in a car, how sad, too cheap to even pay for a motel ( or not old enough to even pass for old enough to rent one) I can even see him being so loving he puts a plastic down so he won't get blood on his seat.

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