Tell her to "LEAVE YOU ALONE".

Plain words are easily understood.

Have a final conversation--ask her "Do you want us to be together,as in a RELATIONSHIP?"--in as many words.

Personally,I have found out that most of the times in a relationship,we are too scared to ask,to know,for fear of upsetting the status quo,for fear of losing the other person by seeming too involved.But,what we forget is we CAN ask,we DESRVE to know,by being honest and direct,by "stating" what's on our minds WITHOUT APPEARING CRAZY,EMOTIONALLY DISTURBED LIKE A LOONY.We can ASK like we ask someone for directions- "Could you tell me where I can find the town library?" or like we ask our friend to join us for a movie -- "Do you think we can catch a movie today?"-------and accept the answer.Am sure we don't go bonkers if the first person tells us to ask someone else for directions to the library or if our friend can't join us for the movie that day.Am sure we don't start crying or act all tragic.

Of course,relationships are more complex than asking directions on the street and my point isn't to lighten your situation.The point I am trying to make here is about COMMUNICATION.So many relationships fall apart just because of a lack of good,open,frank conversation.

Don't make that mistake.Now or never.Heard of the saying "when in doubt,just ask"?Practise that in a mature,sensitive way.Ask your (ex)gir-friend what is that she wants from you,in case you are confused about her feelings.Then,make a decision based on what she says,which will be a one-time decision,and STICK TO IT.

All this is only because you say that you feel she still "loves you".I wouldn't have betted on that myself.