Ask Me Help Desk - Is it really that bad? I didn't see anything wrong with it.

So you say you don't want your boyfriend to find out? He will, trust me. Those photos of you are out there and I would say it's only a matter of time.

I'm glad your mother took the phone. I hope she keeps it. Do you even have an inkling of what sort of trouble you may have brought on you and your mom?
Do you care? Obviously you don't if you say you would do it again.

I don't think you are fifteen.. I think you're younger or at least you look younger in the picture you posted.

You need help young lady. I hope you find someone you can talk with , like a counselor or a minister. If you don't stop this behavior I see nothing but trouble and heartache for you.

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Originally Posted by Clough

Did you take the time to read any of the articles on websites to which I posted a link to a search?

Yes I did and I understand it is illegal now

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

So you say you don't want your boyfriend to find out? He will, trust me. Those photos of you are out there and I would say it's only a matter of time.

I'm glad your mother took the phone. I hope she keeps it. Do you even have an inkling of what sort of trouble you may have brought on you and your mom?
Do you care? Obviously you don't if you say you would do it again.

I don't think you are fifteen..I think you're younger or at least you look younger in the picture you posted.

You need help young lady. I hope you find someone you can talk with , like a counselor or a minister. If you don't stop this behavior I see nothing but trouble and heartache for you.

I am 15. That picture of me is 2 years old.

How did your MOM find these things and take your phone if you live with your grandmother?

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Originally Posted by Clough
Did you take the time to read any of the articles on websites to which I posted a link to a search?

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

Yes I did and I understand it is illegal now

That's good! And, do you now realize that anything that you transmit electronically via a phone isn't going to be potentially truly private, but can have far-reaching ramifications once information is in the hands of someone else other than the person who transmitted it?

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

how did your MOM find these things and take your phone if you live with your grandmother?

I call my grandma mom because I have been living with her since I was 2 months old. She is my mom, the only 1 I know. I have only met my real mom a few times.

Good question Emop!!

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Originally Posted by Clough

That's good! And, do you now realize that anything that you transmit electronically via a phone isn't going to be potentially truly private, but can have far-reaching ramifications once information is in the hands of someone else other than the person who transmitted it?

It's a trade not a hand out. They have pictures of me and I have pictures of them. I don't think they would do that to me knowing I could do the same to them.

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx
How did your MOM find these things and take your phone if you live with your grandmother?

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

I call my grandma mom because I have been living with her since I was 2 months old. She is my mom, the only 1 I know. I have only met my real mom a few times.

That's okay. The real parent is the one who plays the part anyway!

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Originally Posted by Clough
That's good! And, do you now realize that anything that you transmit electronically via a phone isn't going to be potentially truly private, but can have far-reaching ramifications once information is in the hands of someone else other than the person who transmitted it?

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

It's a trade not a hand out. They have pictures of me and I have pictures of them. I don't think they would do that to me knowing I could do the same to them.

Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK

They don't care. Guys will show pictures around. Don't be so sure some of their parent's haven't already seen them

You should be ashamed to do this and bring shame on your grandmother who raised you. How do you think she's going to feel?

You have also shamed yourself. Just for kicks is that what it was for. I'm afraid this will blow up in your face and you may end up in juvie and you deserve it for being so cavileir about this whole thing.

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Originally Posted by Clough

Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK

WHAT?? Wow, its on Google?

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

They don't care. Guys will show pictures around. Don't be so sure some of their parent's haven't already seen them

You should be ashamed to do this and bring shame on your grandmother who raised you. How do you think she's going to feel?

You have also shamed yourself. Just for kicks is that what it was for. I'm afraid this will blow up in your face and you may end up in juvie and you deserve it for being so cavileir about this whole thing.

Well, I was when my mom found them.

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Originally Posted by Clough

Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK

That is sort of scary.

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

That is sort of scary.

Good... You should be scared.

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Originally Posted by Clough
Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but, I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

That is sort of scary.

Yes, it is! And, that showed up only about eight hours after you started the thread and without using a vanity search! Heck, you did better for appearing first on a Google search than many businesses that spend thousands of dollars for search engine optimization!

But, I hope that you might be learning something...

Also, please notice the other kind of links that show up in the search and their related words - "naked pics", "bad a$$", "exchange of images", "two naked maids roaming around his place?", "i wnat you to let him catcj you naked and seee what he sayz", "What the .... is this I'm looking at?", etc.

Do you really want what you post or send to come up being associated with certain types of topics - some of which the content might have even been banned by a site administrator because of the content being against norms of decency and maybe even illegal in the nature of it?

So now your thread is accessible to millions of people around the world via Google.

It takes just one person to do the same with your naked pictures , see now that's scary... and it's FOREVER :cool:

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Originally Posted by Clough

Trade or not, the images are out there. Why take a risk like that?

I'm not trying to shock you, (well, maybe not too much!), but, I'd like for you to click on the following link and tell me what comes up as being the number one "hit" on the first page of the search.

LINK

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

WHAT?? Wow, its on Google?

I sorry, I missed that one response by you! Wow, is right!

Just think of the power that you could be harnessing by spending time putting good and useful information on the Internet so that you and your loved ones might be able to make some money!

There are sick, twisted people in this world who would do anything to anybody to get their kicks.

You have left yourself open to someone seeing those pictures.
Not only that, think of the young people who are raped and murdered because of something like this.

There's no question in my mind at all that you are younger than you say you are. I hope you're scared and I hope you have enough sense to stop this behavior.

What happens if one of those pictures turn up on a porn site?
You can't undo what you've done
But you can learn from it.

Look. Its fun to be bad. No surprise there.

And lets be real here... development of sexuality starts Long before legal age... so... the drive and the interest you have isn't odd or new or unfamiliar to most of us.

If you are going to act like an adult, you need to think like one... and that includes an understanding of what are the ramifications of your actions.

My mother was a straight A student. The good girl who walked the straight line. Who became a mother at the age of early 17. It happens. You know this. That the thing that drives you sometimes has unintended consequences.

Likewise, you MUST act as if anything you send out is known to everybody, everywhere. Just plan on it. There are sites full of "pass it on" pics and videos that some trusting girl sent to some guy who then kept it moving along...

Just because you give something in good faith doesn't mean the recipient will safeguard it in good faith long term...

This isn't about your drive or interest being wrong. We all have some degree of flirtiness and sensuality. Its about the very real liklihood that anything you send to any boy being "out there" in public forever.

Once I hit the enter key... my post is no longer mine. Its no longer private.