What a jerk! You don't need his carp! Don't look back.
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What a jerk! You don't need his carp! Don't look back.
Enjoy being young for a while. Don't jump into another relationship until you're SURE you're ready. Find yourself someone who treats you like a prize.
In a few years, when you see his name in the paper for being arrested, be glad it ended and you got out while you did.
From what you wrote I still say this sc*mbag RAPED you , I would tell your Dad everything and hopefully he gets what he deserves.
I second that... he is a dirtbag and yeah, it was rape... repeated from the sounds of it...Quote:
Originally Posted by friend4u178
Involving parents is hard, but this guy doesn't deserve to get away with it...
But for now... just take some time out and take care of yourself...
I really can't believe or understand why he was so mean I've never done anything to hurt him, he's always hurt me and I hate to have it seem like he is the one who is the problem starter but that's really how it is
Some people just are unwilling, or unable, to respect others enough to TREAT them with respect. It has nothing to do with you. It is ENTIRELY his fault and his problem. You were just the unwitting victim.Quote:
Originally Posted by EarlyCupid12
Most people like that don't see themselves as being the ones at fault. You will never understand him, because you are not like him.
No one deserves to be treated like that. And his will come back to him. Hopefully while he is in jail.
There is no understanding him or the reason why he is the way he is. I know its hard, but you got to try to forget about him and go no contact.Quote:
Originally Posted by EarlyCupid12
Don't blame yourself for anything that happened...
I have to see him everryday, I don't know what I should do. It just really hurts to know that he didn't care about hurting me like that, I just want to forget everything. I at least deserve a apology
WOW! He is a scumbag! You should have taken him straight to the police. You are SOOOOOO better off without him!
I know it hurts but just think when your over the pain and he has gone from your mind. There will be another guy waiting for you who will love you and treat you how you should be treated!
He really is a scumbag and you will realise that soon and be so much happier!
Just do your best to ignore him. I know it's hard. Between classes, try to walk with at least one friend, so it'll be easier to pretend he's not there. During lunch, sit with your back to him. Hang out with a group of friends before and after school.
Someone like that will likely spread rumors or say rude things to you in front of others. If he does, don't respond. Do everything in your power to remain composed and quiet. Keep a group of friends around you whenever possible. Good friends are always the best balm for a damaged heart.
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Originally Posted by EarlyCupid12
I have to ask at this point. What state do you live in?
Ohio
The reason for asking is because he actually broke the law by having sex with you before you reached the age of 16. That IS the law in your state. It's a misdemeanor at this point because your close in age but he still broke the law. So if he thinks your powerless teach the boy a lesson and let them send him up for a few days with bubba for re-education.
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(B) Whoever violates this section is guilty of corruption of a minor, a felony of the fourth degree. If the offender is less than four years older than the other person, corruption of a minor is a misdemeanor of the first degree.
Ref:
http://www.ageofconsent.com/ohio.htm
I just want him to want me back. Just so I can say no
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Originally Posted by EarlyCupid12
Don't attempt to play games , then you just stoop to his level.
Even though he does deserve a swift kick up the...
Just forget him. You want revenge? Show him you can live perfectly without him. Show him he meant nothing to you. He is just a fling in the past. Don't let him see you as frail. Show him your fine without him.
I won't make him come back to you so you can reject him. But it will stump him and make him think 'she isn't affected by me at all'.
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Originally Posted by EarlyCupid12
By your own admission, and by all the comments here, you know what has gone on, what kind of relationship you had with this guy, and your own question of 'Is my Boyfriend using me for sex?' has been answered very obviously, from every conceivable point of view.
No one would say, keep a line open with him, so that you can reel him in, and then cut him off. Or, have sex with him again, hoping to keep him as your boyfriend.
What is it about you, that you allow yourself to be treated this way. Why do you question whether the relationship is a healthy one. You know he will be no different than he was last week. Why do you do this 'revenge' thing at all.
I'm not so sure you're ready to let him go, and frankly, I'm not so sure you won't use sex to keep him, because that is what the relationship was all about.
I hope that you get yourself to a school counsellor, or at the very least do a little research online to see why you cannot let go of an abusive, self destructive relationship.
He has used you, and you let him. Now you are going to use him for revenge. Both of you need to grow up in my opinion.
You are playing a very dangerous game.
Wow. That was a thought and feeling, I'm not saying I'd do it. I'm done with him, yes I still like him but he crossed the line and answered all of the questions I had no answers to, I'm aware now I was being used I needed second opinions to make sure I wasn't overreacting, which means I was obviously to attached to realize he was using me. He doesn't deserve sex and didn't deserve it before Which is why I felt he was taking advantage of me, I find it awkward to kick and scream while he's on top of me. I've been through so much drama before him to last me 25 lifetimes seriously with my mom and all I have a problem being left and abandoned, I liked him so much and I have so many feelings I still haven't released.
Just keep in mind that we volunteer here and your more then welcome to come back at any time you feel the need. Sometimes we may not respond right away but we do our best. Life has no reverse. Its always forward motion and your waking up to a brand new life. Keep your head high.Quote:
Originally Posted by EarlyCupid12
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