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Originally Posted by Jake2008

If the two of you have gone that far, don't kid yourself that it won't happen again.

She should be on the pill, and you should be carrying condoms.

Telling 16 year olds not to have sex when they want to, doesn't mean squat usually.

Your head may tell you not to, but your hormones get in the way.

The relationship itself seems to be up and down and all over the place. Try dealing with that first, knowing where you stand, before you go any further.

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Don't let yourself be in that situation with her again. Wait till you fall in love a few years from now and even though this sounds impossible to do
Try it.

She wants more time to do her own thing, go out with her g/friends, watch TV listen to music, hang out with the girls, just basically being who she is...

She's telling you nicely she wants out!

Im 38 and have yet to understand this female phrase. I have yet to be in a relationship where I wanted to say such a thing to the person I claim to love. It seems irrational to say I love you and want to be with you, then, throw in the "but, I need some space...". To me this is someone who is questioning the feelings they "claim" to have.