Ask Me Help Desk - I used to like him but now that he likes me, I don't think I like him anymore.

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Originally Posted by mariposita

well. What do u like about him, give me 5 reasons why you liked him tht dont involve you? If you dont see anything in his personallity that attracts you, then you can't really like him. It is all just feelings of attraction that are not based off of knowledge. I believe in order to truely like someone it can't just be based off of feelings of attraction, there has to be things specifically about this person that you like, or other wise the relationship will not be built on a solid foundation.. and he will be just like every other person. My advice analyze the specific things about him that you like.. if you can't find anything.. then you just had feelings of attraction based upon him showing you attention.

You absolutely have a point..

1) he's a sweet guy
2) he seems like he's had it rough and I know I had so we have that in common
3) the look in his eyes just makes you.. I don't know warm inside I guess
4) he acts like he doesn't care about things and says he doesn't but in reality he really does.
5) he can keep a conversation going
6) he didn't seem like he was ALL about flirting like he sympathized with me about drama
7) we have common interests

But I have a few things that bother me about him too... its not like il marry him but id like to at least try a relationship