What can you do? You can't force her to come back to you. You're going to have to get through the pain and the hurt and heal from this.

If I do NC won't she lose interest in ever being with me again?
I just don't see how NC is the best solution.

It's the best solution because you can get over the shock of the break up, and make better decisions for yourself, based on facts, and not just feelings.

Dude, she has dumped you, its already over. Heal buddy so you can see beyond your hurts, and fears. She has already lost interest in love, and romance ,with you, thats why she dumped you.

Thats a BIG fact to consider.

Give everything back to her and move on. She's feeling insecure about leaving and moving in with you, so you don't want to push her.

Go out with your friends, go on a date, and at least pretend to have a good time so she'll realize that you can survive just fine without her. Woman are funny, sometimes when they think that you are doing great and are moving on without them, they change their mind and want to come back. Can't guarantee results, but what have you got to lose?

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Love at first sight is possible, but it pays to take a second look.

You guys are right. I'm going to follow your advice, but will you guys still be there and help me?


Will her feelings change once she sees me
Everyday at school?

We can support you through this, but no one can predict the feelings of any female, not even them.

What should I do if she calls me and wants to talk? What do I say?

We'll be here for support,and I notice you've already started giving your support and advice to other posters which is a good thing to be doing!
As for calls, doing NC means you don't take their calls.
If you have to see her every day in school a short but polite hi and then walking away is enough.

Thanks. =] but it's so hard not talking to her, I haven't talked to her but I want to call her, so I just call my friends and talk to them. The thing I fear most is of she comes back. That's when I won't know what to do because I know I'll want to take her back but what she's done to me, I don't know if I should.

Knowing what she's done and how she's acting now I don't think you should. How could you trust her again?
See it as finished and concentrate on getting a better life for yourself.
You will,we all do,it just takes time.

So it's been 2 days with NC and it's soooo hard. I want to talk to her and try to wok things out but I don't. I call my friends and talk to them. I've tried getting away but she's still always on my mind. I can feel myself healing very little bits at a time. But it's like it's not even working for me.

Stay on the path and see how you feel in 30 days, then 60, and so on.

Did we mention this is a process, and not some quick fix, or magic pill?

Takes a lot of time and work on your part. Are you doing your part?

Hang in there it gets better,be patient with yourself and keep busy. Well done for not calling her,but your friends.

I want to have a long face to face talk so that I am sure that there really is no hope. What should I say to her if she agrees to this?

What would be the point if you don't know what you want to say to her?

I know what I want to say but I'm not sure if I should. Should I just say what's on my mind?

No, you should stick with NC. That's simple.