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  • Jan 1, 2010, 04:43 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    to wondergirl. I say that I'm invisable bc no one notices me even though I try but I really do nothing in the afternoons bc I don't want to be stuck at school and I don't like being their.

    First, please don't type in chat speak, that's not allowed here. We type in full words and sentences.

    There are lots of ways teens meet up. But we need to know more about you to help. Why don't you like to stay around school to be in clubs? What else do you do with your time? Have you talked to your parents or a school counselor?
  • Jan 1, 2010, 04:43 PM
    am3201993

    To SCOTTGEM. That guy that I had he broke up with me he dumped me like yeasterday's trash
  • Jan 1, 2010, 04:45 PM
    ScottGem

    He won't be the last. I know it hurts, but you have a long life ahead of you. Maybe you should concentrate on your schoolwork and preparing for college.
  • Jan 1, 2010, 04:47 PM
    am3201993

    To scottgem. I only have one year left of school then I'm out! And Idk how long I'm going to live for so that is y I'm asking
  • Jan 1, 2010, 05:06 PM
    am3201993
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    First, please don't type in chat speak, that's not allowed here. We type in full words and sentences.

    There are lots of ways teens meet up. But we need to know more about you to help. Why don't you like to stay around school to be in clubs? What else do you do with your time? Have you talked to your parents or a school counselor?

    I don't because it's just werid
  • Jan 1, 2010, 05:12 PM
    ScottGem

    OK, if you want us to help you, you have to give us something to go on. Just saying something is weird doesn't help us help you.
  • Jan 1, 2010, 05:20 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    I don't because it's just werid

    How is it weird?

    Do kids pick on you, or just ignore you?

    Have you ever had a real-life friend?

    What do you LIKE about school?

    Is there at least one teacher you like?
  • Jan 1, 2010, 07:17 PM
    am3201993

    To wondergirl. It just is. Some times and they just ignore me that is y I'm the ghost girl. Yea I have friends I sit with them at lunch all the time. Lunch is my fave. My Hurticluture teacher and my art teacher.
  • Jan 1, 2010, 07:18 PM
    am3201993
    To scottgem. What do u want me to say?
  • Jan 1, 2010, 07:22 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    to scottgem. what do u want me to say?

    I want to understand why you don't like your school. What you do with your time outside of school, etc. We need to understand these things if we are to help.
  • Jan 1, 2010, 07:29 PM
    am3201993

    To ScottGem. Why I don't like my school because we have the worst teachers and the highest drop out rate in our state.
  • Jan 1, 2010, 07:33 PM
    am3201993

    Outside of school I just don't do anything but when I'm at home all I do is work some times.
  • Jan 1, 2010, 07:36 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    outside of school I just don't do anything but when I'm at home all I do is work some times.

    What kind of work? Housework? Chores? Homework? Every day?

    What about getting a job somewhere to make money?

    Do you live in a farm area or a small town or in a city?
  • Jan 1, 2010, 07:38 PM
    ScottGem

    Instead of replying in short sentences, try spending some time thinking about our questions and give us something we can go on to help you.
  • Jan 2, 2010, 11:21 AM
    am3201993

    To ScottGem. I do chores at home and I don't really have to work a lot but how does this help me with my problem?
  • Jan 2, 2010, 11:22 AM
    am3201993
    To scottGem. Who are you?
  • Jan 2, 2010, 12:04 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    to scottGem. who r u?

    This is your last warning. We do NOT allow chat speak here. It's who ARE YOU? R and U are just letters.

    If you want to know who I am, look at my profile.
  • Jan 2, 2010, 03:31 PM
    jaime90

    am3201993...

    You need to seriously consider a few things:

    1. You do not need a boyfriend.

    2. You're 16. Learn more about yourself at this age, then how to get a boyfriend.

    3. When you are so desperate to get a boyfriend, chances are, you will fall for the first guy that pays you some attention, and he will end up lousy, and you will get your heartbroken. Desperation is a trap. Get out of it!

    4. Find out what love really is. Words may speak, but actions sing. Love is commitment, respect, trust, willingness to die for someone. Love is a choice, and love is a verb, feelings do not last. Love is not romantic feelings.

    5. Be friends with guys. Friends before lovers, and you'll avoid getting into a relationship with someone you barely know.
  • Jan 2, 2010, 05:21 PM
    am3201993

    To ScottGem. Who are you I would like to know?
  • Jan 2, 2010, 05:23 PM
    am3201993
    To jaime99. I don't have time left in high school so I get out soon. Because I was born in March so it takes a while but now I'm 16 1/2.

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