You act like I don't try.
Serisouly, try getting to know me & my problems before you act like you know everything.

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Originally Posted by fahhuhhteaa

you act like i dont try.
serisouly, try getting to know me & my problems before you act like you know everything.

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There - you just proved precisely what I am talking about.

I didn't prove anything?

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Originally Posted by fahhuhhteaa

i didnt prove anything ??

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You immediately went on the defensive and lashed out. I'm a stranger, so I wonder how you act with your parents.

Well you keep blaming EVERYTHING on me.
Your saying its all my fault.
I mean seriously, study my parents.
My parents have made me so upset,
I did something that made me end up in the hospital!

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Originally Posted by fahhuhhteaa

well you keep blaming EVERYTHING on me.
your saying its all my fault.
i mean seriously, study my parents.
my parents have made me so upset,
i did something that made me end up in the hospital!

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YOU allow yourself to be upset. It's your choice to be upset.

I'm studying you right now. Ask your parents to join us on this thread so we can get their side of things.

If you don't mind me saying.
I try my best to be happy.
But I cant, every time I smile.. I'm upsetted again.
My parents aren't home.. they're gone.
Like they've always been.

She did not blame EVERYTHING on you and just like lovingmonkey14 I'm sure her parents don't EVER believer her.
This is part of the growing process. Teens need parents and they need structure and rules. Parents give them, teens rebel and think their parents "dont understand" News flash, we were once teens ourselves.

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Originally Posted by fahhuhhteaa

if you dont mind me saying.
i try my best to be happy.
but i cant, everytime i smile.. im upsetted again.
my parents arent home.. they're gone.
like theyve always been.

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If they're always gone, there's shouldn't be a problem. It's like you're alone and free.

(It's "upset," not "upsetted.")

I'm not free.
I'm jailed.

And do you always have to correct people?

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Originally Posted by fahhuhhteaa

im not free.
im jailed.

and do you always have to correct people?

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I correct people who should know better and have been in school long enough to know better and are griping about teachers and counselors who claim they don't do their schoolwork.

"Jailed" - yeah, right.

Well you know what.. seriously.
I am in school
But maybe you should start liking someone who cares & that Doesn't think they know everyone.
& you if you know everything, maybe you should know I WAS abused a couple of times.
So please.. please just stop!

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Originally Posted by fahhuhhteaa

maybe you should know i WAS abused a couple of times.
so please.. please just stop!

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Ah, your ace in the hole!

Who abused you, how, and when? And did you report it?

Your ace in the hole? What?

My father.
No, because they would take me my brother & sister away & theyd seprated us.
And I can't be seprated from them, they're my everything.

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Originally Posted by fahhuhhteaa

your ace in the hole? what?

my father.
no, because they would take me my brother & sister away & theyd seprated us.
and i can't be seprated from them, they're my everything.

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How many times, how long, did he abuse you? Is it still going on? What kind of abuse?

He would be taken away, not your siblings.

Just a couple of times.
Some times, if he gets too angry.

Maybe he'll take them away,
But he'll get out... sooner or later and keep doing it.

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Originally Posted by fahhuhhteaa

just a couple of times.
Some times, if he gets too angry.

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And what form does his abuse take?

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maybe he'll take them away,
But he'll get out... sooner or later and keep doing it.

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How could he take them away? He'd be arrested and put in jail. And he would be watched after he got out.

He's crazy I tell you

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Originally Posted by fahhuhhteaa

hes crazy i tell you

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So you won't answer my reasonable questions that are intended to help, but just throw out a wild statement. Okayyyyyyyyyyy.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

How old are you?
I know when my daughter was young there was no way she was going to a boy's house when there was no one there. Teenagers and hormones are a toxic mix or any one's house when there was no one supervising.
Has there been an issue before with you and a girl or your being someplace other than where you were supposed to be?

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I'm 14 and no there has never been any problem at my best friends or anyone else house for that matter. She says she trusts but yet she never believes me. And my best friend and pretty much all my friends really cannot have boys over when there is no parent home so that should play no role in her thinking.