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Originally Posted by danielnoahsmommy

stop chat speak. tell your parents now....how old is this guy? you need prenatal care.

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The parents probubly already know
How weird would it be if your daughter came home and every day her belly was getting bigger
"hey hun, are you getting fatter?''

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Originally Posted by AManWithNoName

the parents probubly already know
how weird would it be if ur daughter came home and every day her belly was gettin bigger
"hey hun, are you getting fatter?''

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As already expressed in this thread, she wouldn't be showing any size changes this early in her pregnancy.
So, based off that, her family wouldn't know. That isn't to say that they couldn't find out any other way. If they haven't figured it out yet, she should tell them, before they do, and get mad at her for hiding it.

My best friend is 15 and she thought she was pregnant. I was there the whole way with her, and I reminded her every open moment that God has things happen for a reason. Firstly tell your parents. They may be mad at first but eventually they will get over it. Secondly, make sure you have your prenatal care, and are following the "pregnancy diet", keep yourself healthy. As hard as babies can be, they teach you a lot.

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Originally Posted by Mama to be

my hole family is seeing that ima getting bigger and they are asking ?? and idk wat to do. i need some help really :(

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First off, yes, you need to tell EVERYONE involved (your parents, boy's parents) because you certainly can't hide a pregnancy, labor, delivery and a child for the next eighteen years.

Secondly, if you are only 8 weeks pregnant the fetus would be tiny, like the size of a fingernail. If you are already showing, you need to see a doctor ASAP as you may be much further along than you think.

You need help and support from your family, and you can also get it from your community. Talk to people and thoroughly examine all of your options. You have choices, but you need to talk to someone first before you can access any of them.

WoW

You have to tell your parents before you get into deep. Just sit them down nice and calm tell them your sorry for it, and Im sure the will back you up. Any parent should back you up no matter what, that's their job.

And try to find a way to get the Baby's daddy on child support quick.

Good luck sweetie

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Originally Posted by miss 226

And try to find a way to get the Babys daddy on child support quick.

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Um she's 14. Its likely the father is not too much older, What is he going to pay support with?

I couldn't give any better advice right than what is given. But plan 1--talk to your parents. They will get mad, but they will also help you find out if you are pregnant, get you prenatal care, tell the father you're pregnant, tell the father's parents, and help you make important decisions.

THIS WON'T GO AWAY.

We haven't heard from her for 3 days, I hope everything is OK. I'm getting kind of worried because this is a big issue. I just hope she told her parents. It's hard to believe someone my age is pregnant. Haven't people heard of waiting until marriage? Hello that's why it's called abstinence, you're supposed to abstain from sex, didn't you listen in health class? Jeese!! There would be less teen pregnancies if people actually waited.

I agree... most people that come here for this sort of question, get their answer and split. SO we rarely hear updates back. I hope she isn't pregnant. I have a 14-year-old cousin that just found out that she was pregnant with her second kid. Her first was born after her twelfth birthday. Some kids are just stupid. They don't understand the consequences to their actions.

I agree that some people can be just plain stupid. My cousin got pregnant just before she turned 15. She is in her late 20's and is a dope head and sleeping around and she just had her second child who has a different father than the first. And she has also been "experimenting" with the same sex. I'm not against the whole gender preference thing, but she isn't married and is setting a bad example for her children. i'm not saying that this person will be the same way, but my cousin's actions have just been going down hill since her teen pregnancy. I really feel sorry for her children because they have to grow up in this type of environment.

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Originally Posted by THEpurplepeanut

i really feel sorry for her children because they have to grow up in this type of environment.

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And, this ONE bad example's two children, become TWO bad examples, and it goes from there.

It's easy to see, especially if you know about exponential growth, how it spirals out of control so quickly. Let's implement Aldous Huxley's Brave New World solution, steralize most of the population! :D

PS: I see you changed your avatar again!

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Originally Posted by HelpinHere

And, this ONE bad example's two children, become TWO bad examples, and it goes from there.

It's easy to see, especially if you know about exponential growth, how it spirals out of control so quickly. Let's implement Aldous Huxley's Brave New World solution, steralize most of the population! :D

PS: I see you changed your avatar again!

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Lol I like the kitty! I have so many pictures I can't choose

And the only reason why my cousin is like this is because my aunt is a lying, stealing, cheating person. And all of her children have different fathers. I'm glad my other two cousins from that family are good people. My cousin aron is marrying a great person who he has been with for at least 8 years. I'm so happy for him.

The OP hasn't been back in a few days.

I think we should wait until she comes back and updates us before this thread turns into a soap box.

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

Um she's 14. Its likely the father is not too much older, What is he going to pay support with??

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Its doesn't matter how old he is, once he's on child support, He will have to take the responsibility he shouldn't have left. And Find away to support the baby.

Its better then not helping out at all it it?

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Originally Posted by miss 226

Its doesnt matter how old he is, once hes on child support, He will have to take the responsiblity he shouldnt have left. and Find away to support the baby.

Its better then not helping out at all it it?

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She can't get child support until after the baby is born.

If he's smart he'll get a DNA test done before accepting anything.

And yes, it does matter how old he is, you can't get blood from a stone. You can't get money from someone that's not old enough to work.

Hi Volkwagen.
I realise you are new but this is a question and answer board.
If you do not have something constructive or helpful to say then perhaps you should stick to the "Discussion" section of this site.

EDIT - Never mind - post was removed, thanks mods.

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Originally Posted by miss 226

Its doesnt matter how old he is, once hes on child support, He will have to take the responsiblity he shouldnt have left. and Find away to support the baby.

Its better then not helping out at all it it?

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But if he has no income, there is no support to be paid! The court is not going to order support in such a situation. Maybe when he grows up and gets a job she can hit him for support, but its not worth the time now.

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

But if he has no income, there is no support to be paid! The court is not going to order support in such a situation. Maybe when he grows up and gets a job she can hit him for support, but its not worth the time now.

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I don't know if it is the same in America as it is here but a good friend of mine pays child support and it is a certain percentage of his wage.
There is no set amount, only a percentage of what he earns, no job = no payments.

Closed, the soap box is out