I think we knew each other well. He told me things that he said he never told anyone else and I did to. The only thing I lied about was how I looked and were I lived.

Trust me. I have been in your situation before.

He did not love you at all. You can't love someone you haven't actually met and spent time with. People are completely different in person than through texting or online.

Plus did you ever actually talk to him on the phone?

If no, then he didn't love you. HE would have tried to contact you in a more personable way if he truly cared at alll.

Im not trying to be coldhearted, I just know how this sort of thing goes.

I have been talking to a guy who is overseas, and I know that I don't love him because we haven't actually spent time together.

We have talked on the phone, which makes the relationship a little more real, but its still nothing that can be considered love, or close to love.

I promise you, life will get beettter but this guy isn't the one and isn't worth you time.

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After reading your other post, I think you know this was all a stupid idea, that it's over, he didn't really love you, and that it's time to move on but you keep wasting our time adding comments because you want attention. You seem to want to hear "of course he loved you! of course he'll come back!" but you're not going to hear it. Because the chances of him really loving you or ever coming back to you is slim to none. Sorry to be harsh but you need a reality check.

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I think we knew each other well. He told me things that he said he never told anyone else and I did to. The only thing I lied about was how I looked and were I lived.

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I still think it is not such a good idea to try to be more than friends because you say you know him but have you met him in person? Is he what he really says? How do you know he's not some weirdo that's 40 years old and is lying to you? And how do you really know how didn't tell anyone else about those "things"? Really, I think you should give this up. It's just pointless. If he's not talking to you, you obviously hurt his feelings or he liked the "fake" you better. Let him be and move on. Plain and simple. I think both of your "questions" are just for attention. Really you have gotten your answers and advice so stop wasting our time. We could be helping other people right now. Really, it's just a wast of time to keep adding comments like "oh i think we know each other". The thing is you don't know each other. Listen and read all of the advice on your "questions" and think about what you are saying and how immature it is sounding. You know it's not going to work but you insist on asking more. Askmehelpdesk is for HELP not wasting other people's time. Please I don't want to sound mean but you need to wake up and smell the coffee.