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  • Jun 18, 2009, 04:23 AM
    N0help4u

    He is most likely a compulsive cheater and guys like that never stop cheating. You need to do no contact with him because you are only torturing yourself.
    Every marriage I have known where the guy was a compulsive cheater and had a very compatible wife in every other wayended up breaking up because the wife just couldn't take it any more.
    You are wasting your time and your life when you could be out meeting somebody that truly has your best interest at heart.
  • Jun 18, 2009, 07:20 AM
    I wish

    Simple math.

    Stay with him = Suffer more

    Leave him = Move on to better things in life

    Your choice.
  • Jun 18, 2009, 07:36 AM
    N0help4u
    Quote:

    I wish agrees: He'll just keep cheating, because even though he got caught, you still want him back, which makes him think it's OK to cheat.
    Yep tolerating it will clearly send the message that you'd rather keep him and put up with the cheating. So you get fed up with it and leave or you stay and live with it. I doubt you can change him.
  • Jun 18, 2009, 07:42 AM
    Justwantfair
    WARNING:

    The guy is 18 and she is 15, please view her other posts.
  • Jun 18, 2009, 08:14 AM
    melly07
    No that was for me, the 18 and 15 year old thing, this one is for my friend, she went on my account.
  • Jun 18, 2009, 08:23 AM
    Justwantfair
    Don't share accounts, you have only two questions posted.
  • Jun 19, 2009, 09:23 AM
    melly07
    He's dating a girl with the same name
    Threads merged

    I was dating this guy for nine months, and he broke up with me for stupid reasons, but we've only been over for about two-three weeks and he's dating someone new.. WITH THE SAME NAME !
    What does this mean?
    He can't get over me ?
  • Jun 19, 2009, 09:24 AM
    jjwoodhull
    Sorry, but I would say it's probably just a coincidence.
  • Jun 19, 2009, 09:25 AM
    Justwantfair
    No it does NOT mean that he can't get over you, he probably already is.
  • Jun 19, 2009, 09:31 AM
    Justwantfair
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by melly07 View Post
    K if you have nothing nice to say, sh ! >Rude Comment Removed<

    If you would like to continue to use this site, then you will have to abide by the rules so that you get appropriate advice. Please review the rules before posting further.
  • Jun 19, 2009, 09:33 AM
    Synnen

    It means that you have a common name.
  • Jun 19, 2009, 09:34 AM
    melly07

    I know but should I take it seriously because they broke up and suddenly it was like he was coming back for me, like flirting, but he's cheated on me so much that I don't know anymore what to believe
  • Jun 19, 2009, 09:36 AM
    Justwantfair
    Now if you had posted this together people would have more information.
    Leave him alone, he is not a quality boyfriend.

    And I still believe this is the 18 year old boyfriend and you are 15 years old, or now you are two people again?
  • Jun 19, 2009, 09:37 AM
    jjwoodhull
    He sounds like a cheater and a user. Stay away from him and find someone that treats you well.
  • Jun 19, 2009, 09:37 AM
    melly07

    We are two sisters sharing an account.
    She is 16 and he's 18
  • Jun 19, 2009, 09:38 AM
    melly07
    I know but whenever I hear his name I get butterflies. I think I reallly like a lot and it's so hard to get over him
  • Jun 19, 2009, 09:40 AM
    Justwantfair
    Ok, well rules state one user per account, as you have been told. By your own account it states 15. Of course, since you were told of the legality of a minor and an adult, she has now become 16.
  • Jun 19, 2009, 09:41 AM
    Justwantfair
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by melly07 View Post
    I know but whenever I hear his name i get butterflies. I think I reallly like a lot and it's so hard to get over him

    He will not be the last guy to give you butterflies. Butterflies don't stop him from cheating or disrespecting you.
  • Jun 19, 2009, 09:42 AM
    melly07

    All right, I have no idea what my account means to you, but it obviously means a lot, because you write on all my threads. Now if you are here to comment about age, the go somewhere please because now you are giving useless information
  • Jun 19, 2009, 09:43 AM
    Justwantfair
    The information is relevant to those responding, as you are not giving all of the information yourself and you are starting multiple threads on the same issue that are not yet combined.

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