I get negative stuff about it too... but I can't let go of her!

There are many types of love. Agape, lustfull, maternal to name a few. It seems that you love this person on a much deeper level than you would 'love' (want) a guy. I would try and hold onto and channel your feelings in a more 'accepted' way, so that you can be the best friend in the world to her and love her more deeply than a guy. I would go for the guy and be true to him if you do. It is, in my opinion fine to love more than one person at a time, even if you are 'bound' to one. This however stops when you cannot control your love for the other. Don't worry about it. Love is potent and confusing and sometimes we can get completely drowned by it, keep your head over and regain control.

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Originally Posted by theresbeautyinu

i get negative stuff about it too... but i can't let go of her!

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You have told her about it. She hasn't reciprocated. Let it go.
Stop stressing over something that isn't going to happen. Maybe go out and meet some new people, find another boy (or girl)

Yes, You have a lot of life ahead of you for now and you should live a little before you get into relationships at your age. I am sure once you get into high school and further on you will meet a good guy or better girl than her. High school always seems to be a time of experimentations anyway. I hope you get to get past this.