If you cut your hair a little bit shorter it would look better but it isn't bad there, just an idea

Thanks for the input girlontheshop.

I don't have much confidence when it comes to looks, tbh.


-Xm8

You got to ask her despite of what she said about "I hope you will naver think of me as more than a friend" trust me, I did that same thing to a boy this week after telling him that I possibly like him. What she said may just be an SOS of "PLEASE PLEASE DATE ME!!!"

This may not be the best advice in the world but at the same time, it might work.

Well I'd like to but I don't think she really cares. I asked her how she is the other day by texting her and she didn't answer... Maybe she didn't get it, whatever but the point is I don't think she's interested.

-Xm8

I know this sounds like what your mom would say but seriously, you need to get out more and join a club or some group. There's theater club (being a tech really helped me out), band, art class, soccar, or go on a school trip to europe or africa or w/e. going on trips, clubs, and sports are the best ways to associate yourself with your class mates. It'll help you to get to know them, both guys and girls. Just get more social because it can lead you to an awesome chick.

Be more outgoing. And everyone loves someone who's confident. Don't be afraid to do something.
Trust me when I say living in your own little bubble and staying in your comfort zone gets you nowhere.

Note for the relationships part, don't concentrate on just having a relationship. Its more than that. Its spending your time with someone you might end up loving and enjoying yourselves. Its not special if your fine with the title and your not excited to see your girlfriend when she walks by. Be patient and you'll find her. Just stop trying so hard and let things flow your way.

I see what you mean about being more outgoing.. I do go out often, but not with females, mostly with my buddies that's all.

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join a club or some group. Band, art class, soccar, or go on a school trip to europe or africa or w/e. going on trips, clubs, and sports are the best ways to associate yourself with your class mates.

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Totally understand what you're saying. However I live in Austria and personally I don't really like speaking german because I'm not so good at it and it makes me nervous. That's why I don't do any of that stuff because it's just a pain in the neck getting over the language barrier.

I personally wouldn't mind spending time with girls it's just that I don't have the energy to even bother and ask them to do something, no matter what it is, (it's not a question of having the balls, I do).

I just feel that the girls in my school think of themselves as holy untouchables, you know, like puffed up girls. So even having a conversation is just like some ego-booster for them - I'm pretty sure you know what I mean.

But maybe that's just me, maybe "my standards are too high". Yea well whatever..

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trust me when I say living in your own little bubble and staying in your comfort zone gets you nowhere.

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Now that I've heard it from someone I guess it's true but foir the moment I'm not really in a position to be anything more than someone in their own little bubble.

-Xm8

Ooo yeah a language barrier can be a . There's nobody that speaks english in Austria? That's pretty gay. If you change your mind you can always ask for help from your german teacher and she can set you up with a touter that isn't such an ego hungry cookie cut-out. Or you could ask around for someone that looks halfway decent. If you give some chick a chance you might see that there's this whole other side to them that they can't show because everyone else around them is so conformed. If you give one of them a push, you might just find what your looking for.