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  • Mar 18, 2009, 11:19 AM
    Snowbie

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  • Mar 18, 2009, 11:24 AM
    kanicky73

    I don't understand your response my dear??
  • Mar 18, 2009, 11:27 AM
    Snowbie

    Lol Can I at least wait till after spring break because I don't ant it to sound random
  • Mar 18, 2009, 11:32 AM
    kanicky73

    Oh absolutely honey, you let us know when you are ready to talk more. But remember just because you put off doing something doesn't make it go away :-)
  • Mar 21, 2009, 02:58 PM
    Alty

    You seem to have a lot of problems with boys, especially for a 10 year old.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ot-332097.html
  • Mar 21, 2009, 07:15 PM
    Snowbie

    No I only like guys I am waiting till 15-16 to date but this guy scares me!
  • Mar 21, 2009, 07:34 PM
    Alty

    Then, like the others have told you, you have to tell your parents.

    You're too young to have to deal with this yourself.

    Why don't you feel you can tell your parents? Is there a problem?
  • Mar 21, 2009, 07:38 PM
    artlady

    If you won't tell your parents,which is what you should do ,then ignore him.If he doesn't get a reaction out of you it will get boring after awhile.
    You could also ask him to stop and tell him you do not feel the same way.
    You can also go to the school counselor on your own and tell them.
  • Mar 22, 2009, 03:11 PM
    unspeaken21

    This guy should scare you... he is saying inappropriate words to you...

    The people here gave you great advice, so take them in to consideration..

    Is there any particular reason why you dont/didnt want to tell your parents?

    I think it's the right decision to wait after spring break too... and I agree with kanicky73 when she said "just because you put off doing something doesnt make it go away"

    Let us know what happens after the first contact with the boy..

    Good luck!
  • Mar 22, 2009, 10:24 PM
    dontknownuthin

    First of all, dear, if you are 10 you should not be talking to people you don't know on the internet. You are very young and people can be very manipulative and take advantage of people of all ages, but particularly children, quite easily.

    As for your problem with this boy, just tell him, "Please leave me alone. I'm too young for a boyfriend and I don't feel that way about you".
  • Mar 22, 2009, 10:35 PM
    Snowbie

    When he sexually harassed me what should I do? ( he has before)
  • Mar 23, 2009, 12:26 AM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Snowbie View Post
    When he sexually harrasses me what should I do? ( he has before)

    Sexually harassed you? What specifically do you mean? What has he done previously that you might consider to be sexual harassment, please?

    Thanks!
  • Mar 23, 2009, 02:15 AM
    artlady

    I think it is time that you shared your feelings with an adult.
    You and I have had this conversation before.

    If you want to private message me please do so .I will be happy to talk to you in private.
    Do that.

    I don't think you need to be putting things out publicly that should be private.

    You could get in trouble for that,it is called slander.

    If you want to talk.
    You have a computer so I assume you are not that deprived.
    Tell us why you don't feel you can tell your parents about this jerk?
    Don't you think your parents want to protect you?
    I don't get why you won't tell them ?
    Tell me..
  • Mar 23, 2009, 03:55 AM
    liz28

    This boy is scary and sexual harassing you. I think this is more of a reason to tell your mom now rather than later because the situation has gotten out of hand and nowadays you have to take peoole words seriously. Again, tell your mom!
  • Mar 23, 2009, 01:46 PM
    Snowbie

    I will tell my parents
  • Mar 23, 2009, 02:00 PM
    liz28

    When Snowbie, I don't want to hear "I am going tell my parents". I want to hear "I told my parents".

    While your prolonging this serious issue it could only get more out of his hands. This boy parents needs to be aware of their son inapropriate actions and the school. They have rules against this. You go to school to learn not to be harass.
  • Apr 25, 2009, 10:01 PM
    Snowbie

    He stopped, thanks!
  • Apr 26, 2009, 03:15 PM
    liz28

    I am happy he did Snowbie so you can go to school without being harass by this boy.

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