That's how I feel unfortunately I know somewhere in me its not true but it still hurts so if you can find that voice in you follow it sometimes it helps
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That's how I feel unfortunately I know somewhere in me its not true but it still hurts so if you can find that voice in you follow it sometimes it helps
wjhhall..
Here's a little advice for you-
If you husband can do much better than you why is he with you? Think about it, You're his wife not some other woman. He loves you and that's all that matters! He sees you as his everything so don't put yourself doen be happy you have someone who really loves and cares about you!
XOXO- rachael
Thanks for posting this you're not really alone unless your playing games with me but yeah I feel kind of the same way you do lol
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Originally Posted by cutie08
I think u need some one who can help u get back on track
Live life to its fullest
Alexander
God made everyone in his own image but we are all different in our own ways. You may think you are useless and all but you really aren't. Everything that happens to you makes you stronger. Don't you think if God made us the way he wanted, he wouldn't have created you ugly and useless. He actually would created you beautiful in his image. Maybe a little more self esteem or so would help. Keep a daily journal(it doesn't matter, fancy or plain) and write out your feelings, what you did today, how it made you feel and so on, just write. Also, start visiting salons, shopping malls, parks and stuff with friends that really care, may help you to build up some self esteem. And keep in mind-WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL NO MATTER WHAT
That sounds very familiar as my sister went through it.She thought she was fat and ugly and useless but she wasn't.I think you should sit down with someone you trust and tell them everything get off your chest.Look at every new day as new start everyone's good at something so find your thing and concentrate on that.While you searching for the thing your good at you will mess up a lot but that's OK your only human.No one good at everything.
Omg its weird reading this cause it reminds me exactly of me. I feel like I'm fat, stupid, ugly and have no purpose in life. But like you people say I'm really pretty and skinny. But I just can't see it in myself. And I wish I was someone else. I've tried talking to people about it , but they just say you know how many people would love to be you. I can't see it in myself at all no matter how hard I try. I truly wish that I could see it so I wasn't like this. Its like I see the beauty in other people but cannot see it in myself at all.Quote:
Originally Posted by cutie08
I know how you feel, I've been through this.
People I know, too.
So maybe this'll help...
Set some serious goals you want to achieve.
Things that you think will improve on how you feel about yourself.
People don't lie, not for just no reason at all at least!
If you think you're 'Fat' and people tell you you're 'Skinny', check out Body Mass index, and that should convince you scientifically.
If you're still unhappy, tone up at the gym or swimming, keep active and you'll tone up in no time :)
They say Your thoughts reflect your feeling and physical appearance, and it's true!
Life is full of positives, you just have to realize them.
The only cure I know for this is to get so busy helping somebody else that you totally forget yourself.Quote:
Originally Posted by cutie08
IAM agreeing with a lot of people here ands I hope you read everyone's posts.. Is it maybe that you hate yourself for something you may be doing or have done... maybe hurt some one or something... Babe your never going to have any releif from this till you come clean, its gods way of getting you to tell the truth..
I've been there soooooo many times (iam a slow learner) but believe me when you finally tell some one the truth you feel free let it go and you will be so much happier and I hope to never hear that come from you again I but you're a wonderful girl just prove it.
Take care my prayers are with you,
Michelle
First of all God made you the way you are! And you need to realize nobody's perfect! But everyone is prety in Gods eye! Give yourself some respect! And try a make over,maybe change your hair style or try a different fashion. But just remember you are better than you think!! Size doesn't allways mean anything! Keep your head up HI!
This was posted 2 years ago...
If you have nothing to live for then do something crazy!
I agreeQuote:
Originally Posted by zeke
Don't worry just believe in yourself I was just thinking like you when I was in my teens I try so hard to fit in.I always think nothing will change and I will always be like this but
Time changes just you have to believe in yourself.look at me now I am happy and every one enjoy my company.go out make new friend or at least talk to your friends it will help
Take care
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