Why do u want to lose your 'V' so quickly? Its not a good thing to be ''sleeping around'', and keep it for someone you really love and trust, that's what I did :) but that's just me, all I'm saying is sex can have a major effect on people after it, one of my friends had sex and now he is doesn't want to know any girls at all.. :-/

Its not me that uses this account, about 6 of my mates do aswelll, so its all of us, so some qustions will be from me, some from charletta, some from amy etc..

This however wasn't posted by elisha who is 13
Amy posted this.

Battery, I have already said this in another one of your threads. It is a very bad idea to share your account, please have your friends start their own account, it's easy and free.

Having 6 people use one account is not recommended. I for one will no longer answer your questions because it's too difficult to figure out who is using the account, is it a 13 year old 15 year old, 10 year old? Our answers will change based on the age of the person we are advising.

See to it that your friends get their own accounts.

Thank you.

Why don't you wait until you're with a guy you feel emotionally stable with. And when you're with that guy, discuss all forms of birth control. I personally use the pill and a condom. My boyfriend and I have discussed going without a condom, but then we decided it's safer to stick to both. I'm quite young myself. And if you remember to take your pill and he remembers to wear a condom you should be safe. But, like I said... why don't you wait until you're with a guy you're comfortable with so it's more then just sex, it's showing affection.

First things first... how old are you? And it is very degrading for a woman to have sex at a party where everyone there is doing it. You will know when you and your body are ready to take on the pressures of sex... it is a heavy burden and you can not just rush into it. Take pride in the things you do and where you do them... sex ix something you do when you are really in love and in a place romantic and memorable... don't spoil your memorable moment for a moment you may live to regret.

Yes! Use both! It isn't worth ruining your life at a early life! The safer the better! Good luck!

I understand what your going through, You just have questions. Well you can get pregnant by just using a condom, the effectiveness of a condom is not 100 percent but does help prevent against aids an other sexually transmitted diseases. If I were you, id get on the pill, its effectiveness against pregnancy is roughly 99 percent. But the use of a condom still help your chances againt pregnancy. Don't mind certain people, having slightly mean responses. If you ever have any questions at all feel free to ask. But keep in mind once you lose your virginity you can't take it back, please don't let people pressure you into it. A well the first time you have sex really hurt a lot of women.