Hmm.. Well I think if a guy came up to me randomly in the street I probably would be a little like Okaaay who is this guy. But its never happened to me lol and I think if your genuine it would probably go your way. I mean why not go speak to someone spontaniously. You never know who you could meet. Go for it what's the worst that could happen? I know ask them for directions then ask them to take you there haha, like a café and invite them for coffee to say thanks for showing you the way :P

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if i saw you in the store or walking down the street, thought you were pretty and wanted to approach you. what should i say to you and how would you want me to say it. im a little shy (but working on my confidence), not into pick up lines, just want to be myself and dont want any awkaardness :)

what would put a smile on your face?

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The best thing to do is start with Hi.Then say who you are and tell me I'm pretty... then just move on... say what you really want to... ask me on a date... but don't be afraid of rejection... its a part of life.

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And when she talks, LISTEN, and ask questions to keep her talking. Women love to think the guy is actually listening to them talk. Make good eye contact without staring, and make noises like, "Oh, wow!" and "How interesting!" and "You don't say!" and "Hmmmm" and "Oh?" You can bore her later with all your own adventures once you've captured her heart.

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This goes for guys and girls both. Most of us would rather talk about ourselves than anything in the world. If you can get her started, and then really listen to what she says and use that to ask more good questions, you may never get her to shut up. The trick is not to come off as just being nosy in the beginning.

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The best thing to do is start with Hi.Then say who you are and tell me i'm pretty....then just move on....say what you really want to....ask me on a date...but dont be afraid of rejection....its a part of life.

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Yeah I guess rejection is a part of life...

What id want you to say is...

Hi I saw you from over there and was wondering if you'd like to get to know each other a little better?

And if you're as shy as you say you are say this...

Hi I was wondering if you'd like to talk sometime? Maybe over (put preferred form of communication here)

Just smile at her then think of
A product in the store pretend you don't know
Where it is and go up to her and ask for her to help you find it

She'll think your sweet instead of a pervert
Calling her names

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Just talk to me, and if you like how I look just say it. All girls need a compliment, and you could be the person to turn someone's whole day around just by doing so. :)

Don't just go up to a girl that you are physically attratcted to because you are going to miss out on all the girls who have great personality's. The best place to meet someone is at a youth group where you can talk comfertably and learn about each other. I no that this may sound sexists but you're the guy and most girls believe in the 'guy asks the girl' rule. I myself do because if the guy is to chicken to make the effort and take the risk to come up and talk to me than I don't think he's worth the heart-ache. As girls though it is our responsibility to let you guys know that we are interested in you. Anyway make small talk and remember to be polite. Us girls actually like it when a guy asks us what we are interseested in and not talk about guy stuff because us girls (most) aren't really into that stuff. Hope this helped
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For me it depends are you hot if you are go for it tell her she looks good . If you think your not try the friend approch say something like do you go to my school I think I ve seen you around try a converstion starter

I'm a dictionary now let me put some words in your mouth

Just act normal and if I happen to look at you give me a smile that puts off a vibe that your nice because most guys don't smile and go for someone you know a little better because guys that just pop out of nowhere are like fake
Thanks

"you have beautiful eyes u know that"_ it'll make me feel comfortable and give me a heads up that you would like to get to know me_ but remember stay cool calm and collected when approaching a girl

Say hi introduce yourself or ask a question relating to were ever the girl is and try to start a conversation

Just be yourself. Ask herhow she's doing. And cheesy pick up lines, depending on them, will make her laugh. Just walk up to her, and talk as simple as that.

Be spontaneous ! :)

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foreverblue- in your opinion do girls get hit on on a regular basis and do you think they appreciate it or think 'i wish all these guys would stop hitting on me all the time'

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I'm not forever blue, but when I was younger it was definitely the latter. Always getting hit on by guys that were not interesting to me. I definitely wished they'd stop.

They often did not smile either. One time a guy started staring at me on the bus, kind of glaring and wouldn't take his eyes off me, like he owned me. I was 16 and kept glancing at him and them looking away anxiously. I finally gave him that short teenage stare that says, stop staring at me. So, he leaned toward me and said "Smile, b****."

Oh, yeah, I really wanted to smile for him then. :rolleyes:

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just act normal and if i happen to look at you give me a smile that puts off a vibe that your nice because most guys dont smile and go for someone you know a little better because guys that just pop out of nowhere are like fake
thanks

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If I smiled chiks would run away lol:D. I mean I don't disrespect them or anything. For me to smile, someone needs to crack a joke. And honestly my fake smile looks scary...


Anyway-you know how they say "be your self" well the guy who sad that knew what they were talking about so just be yourself.

-cheers

Haha if you have a sense of humor you could pull off a cheesy pick up line and run with it..

Excuse me.. how much does a polar bear weigh?. enough to break the ice.. I'm so and so, you caught my attention haha

If the girl has a sense of humor too she would enjoy that. Just be sweet :)

OK first piece of advice
1. don't say were HOT say were beautifull
2.just talk normally
3.follow first 2 advices

Girls have different opinions about that guy walking down the street, don't over complement (like "nice shoes, nice hair, nice shirt, you have pretty eyes, you have a pretty smile" all at once) just be yourself and maybe break the ice by complementing her ( just ONE subject! Not a whole bunch) maybe find out what you two have in common like favorite movies then if you were talking about movies ask her if she wanted to go see a movie sometime. Remember, the nice guy always gets the girl, that's just my opinion.
Good luck! :)