All you can do right now is withdraw from them for now. If they want to be bothered with you or him then okay but for now don't go out of your way to contact them. Let them have time to cool down. Often after a baby is born it changes every bodies tune and they will likely be a bit more supportive.

OK

I feel its retarded that everyone is bringing up laws. That was 3 years ago, And unless they had proof you were having sex way back then. Which you can denie it. You don't have a problem. The issue here isn't whether he will be going to jail its.. she is pregnant and is asking for our advice.

I in high school at 14 was dating a 19 year old. Some of my stupid friends found it important to tell our school cop that I was sleeping with him. Well, the cop pulled me out of class, and asked me if anything was going on between me and him sexually. I told him, that I am not saying anything. And Asked what he could do... He said he could investigate, but with me saying no.. He really didn't have anything to go on.

I agree. She has been @ the age of consent since the time she conceived. Anything prior she could deny.
IF she was not then her parents or the hospital or if she signed up for welfare they could have him charged but her state law she is legal

Oh so all I have to do is deny it?

At this point it isn't an issue. You are legal age of consent and nobody is going to go accusing him of having sex with you when you were 15 (at least I doubt it)

Oh OK.

Do you have to be a certain age to nurse?

Girlygirl... no. Since you can get pregnant, your body will be physically ready to nurse.

I suggest you go to a local clinic or perhaps do some research on how to take care of a child for the benefit of you and the child.

OK

Why do you have the same title thread under pregnancy and new motherhood too. In both threads you ask the same questions. I think it's best to have one.

See the age thing should have never of been brought up, the legal issue that is.

It wasent apart of the question.. Now you have a 17 year old worrying that her baby's father is going to jail.

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Why do you have the same title thread under pregnacy and new motherhood too. In both threads you ask the same questions. I think it's best to have one.

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I know I did it on accident I just got on this website I'm not totally sure on how everything works yet..

I tried answering that it wasn't a problem when Isneeze brought that up but then it kept being brought up when I thought it had been resolved.

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Originally Posted by KissMe10der

See the age thing should of never of been brought up, the legal issue that is.

It wasent apart of the question.. Now you have a 17 year old worrying that her baby's father is going to jail.

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I agree especially since he stepping up and the age of consent is 17.

OK let me get this straight my boyfriend is not going to jail.. because I'm old enough right??

Yeah I am sorry if I have not been making that clear enough. Reply #14 I looked up her state on moral outrage and another site and it said that Tennessee between 13 and 18 they have to be within 4 years of an age difference.

Oh OK! I feel better..

Yes. Let's drop the age thing. That's my fault.

What now concerns me is your lack of knowledge of having a child. Is there anyone around you, or a clinic, or some sort of information center that you can get info from?

What is her lack of knowledge of having a child?