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  • Jan 27, 2006, 03:54 PM
    PrettyLady
    LadyofDarkness, now that you've told us something about yourself, I do not blame your mother for inferring in your life. Sweetie, acting like a vampire and craving blood is not normal, therefore, your mother has the right to check up on you. Please do not drink blood because you can get infected with AIDS and other diseases. Your young and this is just a fade your going through, but I hope you don't take this vampire thing too far. I don't have kids yet, but if I had a daughter that was into vampirism and drinking blood, I would take her to get counseling right away.
  • Jan 27, 2006, 03:55 PM
    LadyofDarkness
    And I'm NOT depressed. I'm goth! And I'm not narcissistic either! I'm a goody2shoes! Uh-huh! Yeah!
  • Jan 27, 2006, 03:56 PM
    LadyofDarkness
    I'm leaving this stupid thing, you guys are no help at all! *goes to sob in corner*
  • Jan 27, 2006, 04:06 PM
    DrJ
    Take it how you must, I still meant it with the utmost respect. If you couldn't tell, I know a little bit about this and I also know that many "goth" kids start to believe that they are vampires. (no I am not one and never was)

    Let me tell you that real sang or psi vamp would be pretty pissed at your reaction and wouldn't likely believe a word you are saying.

    I, on the other hand, am trying ot be helpful. Im not saying that you Aren't a vampire. I simply want to know how to came to find out. Is it in your family? Have you been met?

    There are many things that lead people to believe that they are, when it really may not be the case.

    And TRUST THIS... if you really Aren't... you Don't WANT TO BE. It is a curse... its not a better way of life.
  • Jan 27, 2006, 06:06 PM
    NobodyKnowsMe
    Hun, take it from a REAL vamp, I've been a vamp for 13 years, (I'm 26) your mother will just keep worrying about stuff like this, tell her you're writing a book, or reading one, and was researching it. Don't listen to these baffoons, they know squat about being a vamp, and I believe that you're a vamp, unlike them, if you are, then you'll know, and no need wasting breath on them! Don't get mad!
  • Jan 27, 2006, 06:10 PM
    LadyofDarkness
    I LOVE YOU! *hugs* Thank you!
  • Jan 27, 2006, 06:32 PM
    lilfyre
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by LadyofDarkness
    I'm leaving this stupid thing, you guys are no help at all! *goes to sob in corner*


    My daughter is Goth and hate to be called Goth, she is not a Vampire, and you can not be Goth and goody 2 shoes, totally different end of the spectrum. My daughter has read this and said that you being what you are would not label yourself, people walk up to her and say hey are you Goth and she says no I am (NAME) how are you. I am thinking the term EMO fits better. But it is not my place to judge you, I am upset because I answered you question under false pretenses
  • Jan 27, 2006, 07:21 PM
    giggles
    :p this has to be the weirdest thread I have read in the short time I've been using this site!
    Wouldn't any girl's mom worry about vampirism in the family?? ;)
    I have to say, where I'm from, there isn't much mention of vampires at all... perhaps they're more secretive this side of the world... god knows its dark enough?
    On a serious note - cut your mom a bit of slack.
    This is what you said to someone on the thread, who you have never even met:

    Think out your words before you say them next time please, so either agree/believe me, or please do not say anything else

    So we ALL have to agree with or believe you? Don't you think you're going to fall out with people thinking that everyone must agree with you! What's the point of asking for peoples opinions then?
    Hope you find the answers you're looking for though.
  • Jan 27, 2006, 10:25 PM
    educatedhorse_2005
    I will bet she got a tat or a piercing
  • Jan 28, 2006, 06:52 AM
    lilfyre
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Demonspeeding_2005
    i will bet she got a tat or a piercing

    What was does that mean, I have a tattoo and my pierced, you are stereo typing. I am 39 with a child, married 17 years, run a animal rescue, and worked the same job for 15 years.
  • Jan 28, 2006, 07:01 AM
    educatedhorse_2005
    Then what are you worried about your mom for
  • Jan 28, 2006, 07:15 AM
    lilfyre
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Demonspeeding_2005
    then what are you worried about your mom for

    I am not I just answered her question twice, my mother and I get along fine and my daughter and I get along fine. I just thought you were stero typing lady of darkness be cause she said she was Goth and a Vamp.
  • Jan 28, 2006, 07:33 AM
    educatedhorse_2005
    I don't care if they are goth or vamp
    Or both
    Whatever floats there boat
    But from the sounds of it lady of darkness is scared to tell her mom and she probably needs to or it will cause a rift between them

    I just want to know how old lady of darkness is
  • Jan 28, 2006, 05:43 PM
    celticmist
    Oh my goodness you poor girl, to live in a family where your mother cares enough about you that she is willing to do anything to keep you safe. I just don't understand how she can be so selfish as to want to be involved so much in your life instead of ignoring you and kicking your butt out of the house. How can she provide you with a nice house, a phone to make phone calls to your friends, I'm assuming that she feeds you too. Oh my goodness what will you ever do. How unfortunate for you!

    Take stock of your life and think to yourself... what would I do if I were the mother and start being a better daughter. Your mother loves you silly girl.

    Peace,
    Celticmist
  • Jan 28, 2006, 08:23 PM
    young lady
    I know ladyofdarkness personally, and she does NOT have a tat, she has her ears pierced in which she wears stylish earrings, she watches the style channel and follows the latest trends, her mother is her best friend, (I'm next) though it may not sound like it, she was trying to hide those facts. She is indeed goth, and goody2shoes, it's quite funny, and you wouldn't think it's possible right? Think again! And she's only emo when something bad happened. She's a fun person to be around, and lovable. Her mother and her have trust, but her mother just feels she has certain rights, because she's 56, and her daughter is 13, her mother thinks she knows more.
  • Jan 28, 2006, 08:28 PM
    young lady
    And, not to mention, she's kind of screwed up in the head because well, her parents got divorced before she was born, she didn't even know her father existed before she was 10 years old, he hasn't even sent her an email saying hi, in at least 6 months, her mother is never around, but when she is, she's, I quote, "pestering me" which is only half true I admit, her mother can get annoying, and she is over protective, but they love each other. They have fun too, for example, instead of yelling at each other when they get mad, LadyofDarkness drops her drawers and gives her the sun and moon, then they laugh about it instead of fighting. In the mornings when her mother has just gotten out of the shower (I witnessed this first hand) they make jokes, singing either, the old gray mare, or do your boobs hang low? please take this into consideration, and thank you for your time.
  • Jan 28, 2006, 09:32 PM
    talaniman
    Thanks for clearing that up I'm still stuck on the sangria thing and... what the hell was the question anyway?:cool: :eek: :confused:
  • Jan 29, 2006, 07:01 AM
    nwsflash
    Talaniman long post always get lost after 1st or 2nd page of threads pmpl, I'm pleased I'm not the only one lost.

    You should watch the soaps in the UK, they have got a young Goth couple lmfao.
  • Jan 29, 2006, 08:05 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nwsflash
    Talaniman long post always get lost after 1st or 2nd page of threads pmpl, I'm pleased im not the only one lost.

    You should watch the soaps in the UK, they have got a young Goth couple lmfao.

    All right I admit I ain't that smart but what the heck is"lmfao"?:cool: :confused:
  • Jan 29, 2006, 08:05 PM
    PrettyLady
    This thread is getting stranger each day. I think everyone has given some great answers, but let's not emphasize on it any further because she's just not going to take our advice. If this 13 year old child wants to be a vampire, let her be. Sometimes children need to live and learn. If anything happens to her, I'm sure her mother will be there for her.

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