Ask Me Help Desk - How to make her fall for me again?

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So, after all that good ol' advice, tell us what you think. If your looking to bump your own thread, at least tell us what you think, honestly.:D

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Originally Posted by talaniman

So, after all that good ol' advice, tell us what you think. If your looking to bump your own thread, at least tell us what you think, honestly.:D

I've made a decision, I'mma get her to ask me out, I know there's a way, there's 5 days left and only 3 of them are school days.

I need to get her to come to me..

Hey "TALANIMAN" do u have msn?

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I need to get her to come to me..

Then leave her alone.

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Hey "TALANIMAN" do u have msn?

Yes.

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Originally Posted by xmarksthespot

I went out with this girl for a month and after that, she told me her feelings for me weren't as strong as before and we decided to stay friends, i know somewhere inside her, she still kinda likes me. This girl really means a lot to me, and it's killing me to see her alone. especially when i think of the times we spent together.

We went out from December 4th 2008 until January 17th 2008, I'm thinking of asking her out again on Valentine's day, but i need to make her fall in love with me again, there's 2 weeks left until Valentine's day and i have to make the most out of it to make sure she says "yes" when i ask her.

I need to know how to make her fall for me again..

Things you should know:
-we're close friends, even after she broke up we decided to "move on" and stay good friends.
-i can talk to her about anything and she can talk to be about anything.
-we're both 17 years old.
-we go to the same high-school.
-she knows i still love her and would want to be with her.
-i see this girl every single day of school and talk to her at school on msn and on the phone.

There isn't much time left for me to get this sorted out.
11 more days, to be exact.

People please help me, i haven't been able to sleep well since she broke up.

I think I no how that girl feels... she's like me.. and that guy who loves me is like you... though we aren't that closey like you.. but I do no that he loves me.. but I no what my heart wants.. [same like that girl.].. and my advise to you is.. sstay as friends for now.. and let's si what' step she'll take next.. then dicide your next step afterward.

Best of luck!

Dude the same thing is happening to me only I went out with her for about 6-7 months and I'm thinking of asking her out again on valentines day but she moved to a different town, but we still keep in touch, so what I would do is to give her poetry! (its working 4 me) u need to make her feel you still care about her more than ever before.

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Originally Posted by MasuBhat

i think i no how that girl feels....she's like me..and that guy who loves me is like you...though we aren't that closey like you..but i do no that he loves me..but i no what my heart wants..[same like that girl.]..and my advise to you is..sstay as friends for now..and let's si what' step she'll take next..then dicide your next step afterward.

best of luck!

Thanks for the advic ethis also helped me even though I'm not the intended user.

Thanks for all the help, I've decided to give it more time but I still need tips for a different kind of approach.

Help

The best approach is the one you come up with since your there and know her.

lol.. hope i am not too late to help... since the post is like way back... so i just help the closest question

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thanks for all the help, I've decided to give it more time but i still need tips for a different kind of approach.

approach is something that about yourself... you... and you only... like many other already say you just be yourself.. and things will come to you don't force don't rush... just be you... ^^

Thanks for everything guys

And feel free to drop more advice

Thanks again, I really appreciate this

Hi, may I know how this turned up? Ever got together with her again? I'm a similar situation.. been there before too.. giving time and space never worked, but pushing even made it worse. It sucks being stuck like that.

I say go for it.
And I agree with isneezefunny.

If she says yes than take it from there.. and if she says no.. Sorry bro.
Its one of the most difficult things to deal with but everyone has to go through it sometime.

Falling in love after one month? Try getting to know her a little longer as her friend. If you two are as close as you say you are.. just inch the relationship closer and closer over time and who knows- one day she might realize the guy she always wanted was right there with her all along.

Just don't get your hopes up because if she really only feels that you two are merely friends.. than that's how it'll be. If this is the case. Just learn to be her friend and you'll eventually see her as a friend as well.

Hey. I know it's a little late.. but your story sounds cute.. so I was just wondering what happened? Was it a happily ever after or a sad ending??