That's fine with me!
Dear just go to your doctor and he will do the job/abortion after you pay him! Isn't that nice and sweet!
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That's fine with me!
Dear just go to your doctor and he will do the job/abortion after you pay him! Isn't that nice and sweet!
You are very nasty. You should not be that way twards a young girl that is scard and doesn't know what to do. Why don't you put yourself in her shoes for just one min! You have no idea how she is feeling! How dare you judge her your not in her shoes! Just because your "pro-life" doesn't mean the rest of this world is. Why would you want someone to bring a baby into this world knowing that they can't do it. You have no idea what her home life is like or her family or anything else. If you don't have anything positive to say THEN Don't SAY ANYTHING AT ALL!
And how would she feel if she was in my shoes or in shoes of all the women that can't have a child? What do you know about me to judge me? I have just been told I will never have a child, what do you know how my life was, my home, what I have been through?
I think she knows the answer, everyone knows she needs to go to doctor to have it done!
Softbelly--
I was 17 when I had my daughter, and considered abortion, but decided that it wasn't for ME.
I placed my daughter for adoption.
I am now suffering from "unexplained infertility".
I think I know better than you how all those shoes fit.
Shut your mouth.
The OP made her decision. There is another post ASKING for opinions about pro-life/pro-choice. Go post there, but quit hectoring people HERE. You have hijacked this post, and frankly--it's not about YOU.
Go spew your venom on someone who hasn't already made their choice.
We've really strayed off topic here, and these last posts are not helping the OP at all. Please take your discussion to PM or start a new thread in which you can debate being pro-choice or pro-life. This site is about helping people, and arguing in this girl's thread is not going to help her.
Just because you can't have a child that's not her fault. That's why they have adption places. Im sorry you can not have children I truly am. But that doesn't give you the right to pass judgement on other people. No one is judging you at all! I know nothing about your life. And I said nothing about you or your situation. The poor girl is scard and doesn't know what to do. Think about it from her point of view for just a second.
Thank you. I really do appreciate your understanding. For those that are pro-life, I'm sorry if I'm a dissapointment to you, but like others have said earlier- I've made up my mind. I'm in no condition to raise a child. I have a job but I barely make enough money to provide for myself. My mother doesn't make much money either and she has to support me AND my older brother who is old enough to move out but hasn't. And my boyfriend doesn't have any money to raise a child either. He works full time but he has bills and he has his own place etc. I don't think it's right to bring a child into this world when their living conditions would be awful. I grew up 1 out of 5 children with a single mom(the youngest). It has been horrible. I would never want to do that to another child. I know that adoption is an option, but my family is extremely judgmental and I can't see myself facing them pregnant. My older cousin recently had a baby a couple of years ago and ever since, they look at her like she's trash. I could never face my older siblings after having a baby. I would have to drop out of high school because there is no way I could be pregnant and go back to school and face my friends. I had dreams of attending one of the best universities in my state and I can't imagine giving that up to live with a child or be pregnant when we're both unhappy.Quote:
Originally Posted by Foxy459459
I also wouldn't want to bring a child into this world knowing that they would never know their mother or father. That's unfair. I have only seen my father 3 times in my entire life and I've seen the difference it's made between me and my older siblings. They at least have memories of my dad when he was still around but I have nothing. To imagine that my child wouldn't know they were my child, and knowing the psychological and emotional scars that would leave them, I would never want to do that either.
Well you still have a hope for seeing your child, unexplained infertility, I know people had children with that. I understand this girl has a problem, but how do you know this will not be worse after she has the abortion. She will have to live with this, will she really be able to, once she gets older be able to look back and say it was the right decision. My sister in law had her abortion and she had a daughter after that, but she still keeps thinking and talking about the child she aborted. She felt under pressure to do it. What if this girl is going through the same thing. I am seriously unhappy at the moment and I don't judge her, but see where I am coming from. This is for her, and her baby not me.. please try to understand.Quote:
Originally Posted by Synnen
This girl needs support not argueing. We need to help her through this...
I'm already getting noticeably fatter :(
Check your e-mail rawr_itssonya
See she said it, she feels under pressure from piers and family, what they would think, well my child don't worry about them, they will always think something no matter what you do. This is what my sister-in-law went through, was under pressure from family, they all thought she should have an abortion. Have a good think about it dear... you can't undo it afterwards.
First of all Softbelly, you are new here and you are starting on the WRONG foot. Chill out, relax and be supportive rather than judgmental. We all make mistakes in life, but we should not be preached at for our mistakes but taken under wing and guided.
Now, back to the OP...
Sonya, how far along do you think you are? If you are too far along a doctor won't do an abortion. Abortions are only done until the 12th week of pregnancy if it is an elective abortion. Medical abortions, for reasons other than choice can be done later, but only if it is a medical necessity.
I can calculate your how far along you are if you can tell me the first day of your last period.
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