Ehhhh I don't really care that much like it sucks but on the other hand I am trying to see the positive side and I try to just let it go and just live my life for now

Yeah. Don't worry about her. When you find someone who your really serious with and together a while... then it's okay to worry. Iv'e been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. He's tryes breaking up with me before but I wouldn't let it happen. Just out of curiosity, do guys really like holding hands and stuff? Because he doesn't and I think my brothers the same way with his girlfriend. I mean, do a lot of them just do it even though they don't want to?
Anyway, here's what I think you should do. Who ever it is that you like the most, if they aren't with someone try talking to them as a friend and try to see what kind of person they are and get to know them. Then ask them out. I just hope that doesn't happen to you again. I can understand what it's like being that iv'e kind of been their but I found someone I really care for and they care for me.

Yea I just hope it happens sometime soon but oh well whatever happens happens... and the hand holding thing yea I don't know I don't really like it that much but it doesn't bother me so I don't know I could live without out even though sometimes its nice just holding hands I guess it depends well ill try and just be more opne to the world haha

Well... I just seen my boyfriend talking to another girl. She talks to every guy though. I always had a fear of him likeing her and I never knew why. I don't know what was said or anything. They just looked so happy talking to each other. So I might break up with him. I never thought I would but I'm tired of it. I don't know what to do... I'm confused. I wouldn't be surprised if he told her we were just friends so that's why he doesn't want to hold hands.

You should just confront him and ask him about her... if you have doubts about your relationship make sure you talk its not worth spending all your time with him fi he has no feelings for you and I also think if he truly loves you he would hold your hand at anytime and even if he doesn't like it he would still do it so talk to him

I tried talking to him but he just gets mad and thinks that I'm accusing him of stuff that he's not doing. This is how all of our fights always start and it hasn't happened sense may. But he says he doesn't want to hold hands because it doesn't mean anything to him. And I couldn't really picture him holding hands with anyone.
Have you tried talking to anyone else that you may want to be with?

Ehhh I know one of my friends was saying that he was talking to this girl and my name came up in the conversation and she was like yea I love him he is such a sweetheart haha so I don't know she is cute and everything but I don't want to like talk to girls cause I get to attched to easily haha... and well about your boyfriend I don't know I guess you can tell better if he just does not do it with anyone or if he just doesn't want to do it with you well I know if I love a girl id do anyhting for rher

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ehhh i know one of my friends was saying that he was talking to this girl and my name came up in the conversation and she was like yea i love him he is such a sweetheart haha so i dont know she is cute and everything but i dont wanna like talk to girls cause i get to attched to easily haha....and well about your bf i dont know i guess you can tell better if he just does not do it with anyone or if he just doesnt want to do it with you well i know if i love a girl id do anyhting fo rher

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You might want to look up the 'Double Your Dating' site/book and study up on it so you don't have to go through this high and low again. I suspect you may be coming across as too needy or too nice - both are death in the eyes of most wimmen - there is 1 wimmen that refutes it but she is 113, blind and deaf and is the last of her tribe so there may have been a problem in translation...

Sorry if this sounds harsh. It will save you a lot of time and grief though.

Haha yea I have deff always been the nice guy you know and its not that big of a deal to find girls that think I am cute its just I don't know how to go about it haha so yea I don't know right now I am just like whatever happens happens so I really don't know

Well, just don't be sad over anyone. I'm sure you'll have a few more girlfriends in your future.