Sometimes the only way to find out what you want to know is to just ask. I know how hard it is, things like that are hard for me too. Also, in some circumstances, if you wait for the guy to make the first move into dating status, you could be waiting a long time. Some guys are just as shy as we are. You can just flat out ask him, are the feelings he's been expressing toward you flirting, or just friendly?

When do I ask in person over the computer?

I would ask in person. When you are face to face you can read people's emotions better, and it makes you seem stronger to talk to him in person rather than hiding behind the computer (dont worry, I've done it too :p). And as you said before, he does not have a good reputation for replying on the computer anyway. :)

Yea that is true and someone else could be on his myspace or sn.

I think I'll ask him to come and chill with me and some friends the pull him to the side and see what goes from their. :confused:

That sounds like a good plan. And if he does happen to tell you that he wasn't flirting, just being friendly, walk away with your head held high and act like it doesn't bother you or make a difference to you either way. I know inside it may hurt, but present yourself like you are a strong woman. :)

Okay if I even ask him I'm talking to him now and he is aggravating me.

Why do guys answer a longg question with one word?
Like girls want one word answers

Almost every guy I know does the same thing to me when I ask them something. Sometimes they are too preoccupied with something else to give your question any full thought, so they just give you one word. :p

Do you mind if we talk on Yahoo?