Ask Me Help Desk - In love but in pain.

Ok let me start and say this is just how I see things and I'm telling you what I have been threw in a similar event... when I was 13 I was over at a friends house and met the guy I am now married to.. he was 17 at the time and after we had been together for almost a year he cheated on me but I forgave him and we moved on. A person can change if they want to but you can't make them. If u love him don't let him go just yet. Maybe you should take a little time off from being around each other and spend some time alone soul searching. The heart wants what it wants and you can't stop it even though in the end you might get burned most of the time you wouldn't trade the happy moments for anything. I married him when I was 15 and he was 19 we have been married for 4 years and we are more in love than ever. You just have to follow your heart and don't give up. My dad hated him and in the end he saw no matter what I wasn't going to give him up and he signed the pappers for me to marry him. Godd luck love can be hard

Seeing as you might only be looking at these posts as opinons, trust me take into serious consideration what we are saying. I'm 16 and in a relationship with an 18 year old guy as well and trust me it's not all that easy. Honestly, it is very, very difficult to have a serious relationship with an 18 year old because that is a young age but think of your well being seriously in this situation. Seeing as when you are young and in a relationship, don't expect it to last forever. Think about how it will end. You do not want it to end with him cheating on you again with anyone and definitely not a 12 year old child. That is very wrong, he should not be attracted to 12 year old girls. Ask yourself what an 18 year old young man has in common with a 12 year old little girl. NOTHING! That is pedofilia my dear. Do not involve yourself with someone who is willing to sleep with a child, imagine how he thinks about you. Trust me, the best way to be in a relationship with someone is to imagine yourself breaking up with the person, you should think of whether it will end badly or well and if you can picture it ending well it means that your relationship is a healthy one.

Can u marry when your 15? X

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Originally Posted by babz888

can u marry when your 15? x

Yes with parental permittion I believe. Someone I know had a spiritual wedding at the age of 15 but I don't know if it can be done in a church.

Ooo ryt tata :):)