Try to be yourself when you're with another person, and then you will remain in your senses... some men are introverts but fun to be fun around, they may not like to exhibit their feelings and we may misunderstand them because they are not talking, so don't judge people too fast... when I was young I used to think the same way because I was attractive(actually I still am! lol)... and because we are so aware of our looks that it makes us conscious of what others are thinking and so confounded by confusion about whether they truly love our looks or beyond that... So my point here is that let not these come in the way to have fun with people u like to be with... enjoy... or else with over thinking about it, u will lose people you love.

So true about the looks thing. I mean, I was definitely blessed when I got my looks, so I don't know whether guys like me or my looks. I mean, I'm a size 6, bra size d, blonde hair, blue eyes, and I'm 5'8. I don't think I could look much better. Not to be full of myself, but I'm not ugly. And I am never sure whether guys like me for me or for my looks. Its very very hard to know. And I do date for fun. Its just, I want to date someone who is after more than JUST fun, like a real person ,who knows how to have fun, but can still be serious.

You are absolutely gogerous! Hugs! I am actually confused about it too, I have great figure but not as tall as you are. I am as intelligent as the stereotype,lol. I am so confused about what a guy like from a girl now. But I am against sex before marriage, so if that's the case... the guys don't like me, then I am speechless. Good luck, beautiful, I truly think you are beautiful!

Aww thank you so much! And I don't really sleep with guys anymore. That was a stupid mistake I made, and I don't regret it exactly, but if I could go back in time, I wouldn't do it again. From your picture you look veryy pretty. And sadley, because of my appearance, people automatically mistake me as dumb, and easy. Which I am neither. But if people think of me as just a pretty face, I can't do anything about it. I try to speak my mind, and people dismiss me because of how I look and their assumptions. And nicespringgirl, I think that any guy would be lucky to have you as a girlfriend. You are pretty, smart and extremely nice. And that's what guys are missing out on.

The best advice anyone can really give you is... to just be you.

Do your best to be happy with just being you. Enjoy your life... your friends... your hobbies. Make goals for yourself... be confident in who you are and where you are going.

Men look for different things in women. The right one will come along while you are living your life.

That sounds like good advice.
I guess that's what it all comes down to really.
Out of everything you guys said on this board thingy,
That's what I've been getting out of it.