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Originally Posted by Alty

That's fine, but this is a public site, and anyone can post on this thread and offer their opinion. You don't have to read the advice posted, but we have every right to post it. Just so you know.

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Ok but I'm talking to homegirl50... And she's helping me

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Originally Posted by noko2149

Ok but I'm talking to homegirl50... And she's helping me

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Like I said, that's fine, but this isn't a chat site, this is a Q & A site. Anyone on this site has the right to answer your question, and frankly, you've already gotten the best advice anyone can give you. Now you seem to be using this site as some sort of twitter or blog account. That's not what this site is for.

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Originally Posted by Alty

Like I said, that's fine, but this isn't a chat site, this is a Q & A site. Anyone on this site has the right to answer your question, and frankly, you've already gotten the best advice anyone can give you. Now you seem to be using this site as some sort of twitter or blog account. That's not what this site is for.

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Not true

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Not true

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What's not true? You post "My girlfriend called". That's not a question, that's chatting, and not what this site is about, at least not in this forum.

You also don't seem to want anyone else to post here, which is also not what this site is about.

So what's not true?

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Originally Posted by Alty

What's not true? You post "My girlfriend called". That's not a question, that's chatting, and not what this site is about, at least not in this forum.

You also don't seem to want anyone else to post here, which is also not what this site is about.

So what's not true?

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I don't know why your trying to start things up here, which I find very childish on your part.. Your not helping.. Your trying to pick an argument.. I'm not acting like this is a chat room.. Homegirl50 tells me and wants me to her advice when I need help on something or want to talk about something. So I really am not in the mood for you to try and start things. Thanks have a good one.

You need to show respect to all the experts here. We are here to help. You can't pick who to talk to.
There are many pages to your question and I have given you what I feel is good advice.
We cannot chat every day, with your asking the same question.
Get yourself prepared for you trial and if I were you, I'd leave your girl friend alone. Her sneaking and talking to you is not helpful.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

You need to show respect to all the experts here. We are here to help. You can't pick and choose who to talk to.
There are many pages to your question and I have given you what I feel is good advice.
We cannot chat every day, with your asking the same question.
Get yourself prepared for you trial and if I were you, I'd leave your girl friend alone. Her sneaking and talking to you is not helpful.

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Exactly. I don't know how many times you've said "this is not a good relationship, you should leave her alone", and yet this thread still continues.

I understand that the OP is upset, but he's gotten the best advice he can get from you, and refuses to listen, or accept it.

I don't know what else anyone can do for him. It's up to him now. He has a court date coming up, and it may very well be that he won't be given a choice but to forget this girl. Personally, I think that would be the best thing for all involved.