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Basically I was out fridai night and we were having a party type thing and we were all pissed and I ended up going with my brothers mate all night but my brother doesn't know as he was asleep downstairs and no one else knows other than one person. And we both said to the guy not to tell anyone as it isn't nout and nothing serious was going to happen but I can't stop thinking about it and when I do think about it I got these feelings in my stomach and I can't help it and I don't know what to do and he said that fridaii that he would go out with me but he too close to my brother :S please give me some advise

So is your question about if we think that it would be OK if you went out with your brothers close friend?

With all do respect, I had to re-read your question a few times.

To answer your question, I think that you should discuss it with your Brother, out of respect.

Chat speak is against the rules of this site. There are many reasons for this, the major one being that most of us cannot comprehend what you're saying if you use chat speak. This is also an international site, so please, use complete words and the best English you're capable of.

In other words, it's;

Friday, not fridai
No one, not no one
Said, not said
Nout? Don't even have a clue what word this is.
When, not when
That, not that
Would, not would
:S? Again, no idea what this means.

Get the idea?

No chat speak. Okay?

Thanks. :)

I will rewrite and repost it now then . Sorry about that its just that I am so used to text chat x

Basically I was out on fridai night and we were having a party type thing and we were all pissed and I ended up going with my brothers mate all night but my brother doesn't know as he was asleep downstairs and no one else knows other than one person. And we both said to the guy not to tell anyone as it isn't anything and nothing serious was going to happen but I can't stop thinking about it and when I do think about it I got these feelings in my stomach and I can't help it and I don't know what to do and he said that fridaii that he would go out with me but he too close to my brother But also I don't know if it was drink talk or truth and he had my number but he has not textd me yet and I saw him todaii but he did not metion it as my brother was there :S please give me some advise On What I should do about it ? And a solution on how to fix it.. thank you

Me and this boy kissed when we were both drunk but it went on all night
And he told me he liked me from the first time he saw me
But he said he would go out with me and that but he is to close to my brother but I haven't stopped thinkiing about him and I don't know if he really does like me
What do I do ?

The :S mean
Confused face .

No problem.

You can re-write it and post it here, keep it on the same thread. You'll get more answers if everyone can understand what you're saying. :)

Obvious it sounds like you are not old enough to be "drunk" and drinking"

Plus you were kissing ( assume making out) and you are not sure he likes you?

Sounds like you need to talk to him

Yes wel he told me he liked me but he had had a drink but he said he liked me from the first time he saw me but with me being his mates sister he feels like he can't do anything about it.. But he said all this when he had a drink and I don't know what to do about it... And he has not been in touch since ? And when he was at my brothers yesterdaii he did not speak much to me But it was probably because my brother and his mate was there ? What should I do about it ?

How old are you and listen to me.. drinking and kissing do not mix. How long have you even known this guy?

I am 15.. I have known the guy for a while now but I have onli been speaking to him properly for about 2 weeks which was when he was at my brothers and I was there . But I really like him and I'm confused what to do

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I am 15.. i have known the guy for a while now but i have onli been speakin 2 him properly for about 2 weeks which was when he was at my brothers and i was there . But i really like him and im confused what to do

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How old is he?

He is 17
And also what does that mean ?

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He is 17
and also what does that mean ?

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What it means is this.. first of all being with someone who is drunk and kissing with him all night is something you should not have done. He is your brothers friend and you better be thankful nothing else happened.

You are making yourself look cheap and asking for a guy to take advantage of you. Drinking and making out usually lead to other things with dire consequences.

Leave this guy alone. It was the booze talking when he told you he liked you. Stop putting yourself in situations which could be dangerous.

He got drunk and made out with you. That is all it means.
He knows this is something that was completely out of line since you were drunk too.
Stop fantasizing (cause that is what you're doing) and leave alcohol and well enough alone.

Alcohol makes you do stupid things, that's why there's a law about underage drinking. Adults are better equipped to handle alcohol, obviously teens aren't.

Stay sober and stop making out with boys at parties. You may be the one they boast about in the locker room, but you're not the one they'll take out on a date. Guys don't want to date the easy girls.

Yeah but he likes me and he doing nothing about about it.. I can tell by the way he looks at me and yes he might be my brother friend but I know that I brother wudnt mind and my brother went out with my best mate for ages. And my brother has told me that the guy likes me so I can't just forget about it .

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Alcohol makes you do stupid things, that's why there's a law about underage drinking. Adults are better equipped to handle alcohol, obviously teens aren't.

Stay sober and stop making out with boys at parties. You may be the one they boast about in the locker room, but you're not the one they'll take out on a date. Guys don't want to date the easy girls.

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I agree.. Alty.. Wish I could go back to fifteen. What an innocent age it was.

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yeah but he likes me and he doing nothing about about it .. i can tell by the way he looks at me and yes he might be my brother friend but i know that i brother wouldn't mind and my brother went out with my best mate for ages. And my brother has told me that the guy likes me so i can't just forget about it .

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If he wanted to do something about it he would. He obviously doesn't. He may have a personal thing about dating siblings of friends. You are 15 how close his he to 18? He may not want to have a relationship with you. May not mind the drunk kissing, but no relationship.
You need to stop fantasizing about this boy. He has left you alone, you need to respect his choice and leave him alone.

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yeah but he likes me and he doing nothing about about it .. i can tell by the way he looks at me and yes he might be my brother friend but i know that i brother wudnt mind and my brother went out with my best mate for ages. And my brother has told me that the guy likes me so i can't just forget about it .

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Of course he likes you, you put out. He's 17, that's what he wants, a girl that gets drunk and does things that other 15 year olds don't do.

If you really want him, and really want to know why he isn't talking to you. Ask him. If he says it was just a drunken mistake, then move on, learn from this. If he says he likes you, realize that it may just be because of that night, and he's probably thinking that next time he can get you to go all the way, instead of just kissing.

No matter what he says, if you keep drinking and letting guys take advantage of you, that's the reputation that you'll build. Do you want to be known as the drunken floozy, or do you want better?

Leave the guy alone. Leave the booze alone.

Isn't being Funny or anything But No need to be like that love at the end of the day I don't nothing wrong and I had the decensy to come on here and ask for advise not aload of rubbish .

What you have gotten is advice.
This boy has shown you by his actions that he wants nothing to do with you.
He may not like dating siblings of his friends, so you need to respect that and leave him alone.

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What you have gotten is advice.
This boy has shown you by his actions that he wants nothing to do with you.
He may not like dating siblings of his friends, so you need to respect that and leave him alone.

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We have the decency to give you our opinions. If you are waiting for anyone to tell you it was all right to get drunk and make out all night with your brothers friend, you won't get that advice here LUV.

You acted like a girl with no morals and you and this guy drinking and it is underage drinking I might add, makes you and him seem like two people who could care less about what you did.

If it's too hot in the kitchen, stay out. This is an opinion. You can like or not.

No I am not waiting for anyone to tell me that it was right but I don't think that it was just me that was in the wrong and I get the feeling that this is what you are saying. I do care about what I did and part of me does think that it was wrong but we also kissed in the morning before I went and don't u think that I should at least get him on his own and speak to him about it instead of just forgeting about it ?

If he wanted to speak to you believe me he would. This guy knows what he's doing.
He may not even want to talk to you.
You need to let go of this and leave him alone.

Yeah but he hasn't had chance to speak to me as we have only seen each other once since then and we couldn't speak really as my brother and his mate was there so we just acted normal

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no i am not waiting for anyone to tell me that it was right but i dont think that it was just me that was in the wrong and i get the feeling that this is what you are saying. i do care about what i did and part of me does think that it was wrong but we also kissed int he morning before i went and dont u think that i should at least get him on his own and speak 2 him about it instead of just forgeting about it ?

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Leave him alone. NC... He is your brother's friend and that won't last if your brother finds out. Leave him alone.:(

It will because my brother won't mind and I know this and my brother was seeing my best mate for months and we all hung out together and the only reason they split up was because my best mate moved away .

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it will because my brother wont mind and i know this and my brother was seeing my best mate for months and we all hung out together and the only reason they split up was because my best mate moved away .

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What part of "leave the guy alone " do you not understand? You were a one night stand drinking binge buddy. That's all. He doesn't like you. NC. NO CALLING,TEXTING, Email, CARRIER PIGEON. Nada...

Just because your brother has no problem dating your friends that does not mean the same for this other guy.
If this guy wanted to talk to you, he would find a way to do it. Do you have a computer a cellphone. People can be reached if a person wants to reach them.

I think this guy got caught up in a drunk moment and does not want it repeated.
Don't go chasing him. If he likes you, he will contact you and if he does, what he says or does will answer your question.

Yeah I understand where tour coming from now to be honest.. so out of respext I shall just give it time and wait and see what happens and I realised that he could have got in touch with me but hasn't so he either must be shy, doesn't want nothing else to happen or he thinks that I onli went with him because I was pissed so he darent say anything.. Well I shall just see where things go from here and if I have the chance to speak to him on his own abou it then I will :D

Just don't go chasing him. It's bad form.
Watch the text speech a use spell check. Your post can be difficult to read.

Okay and sorry getting late so I keep misspelling words and I attomatically type in text language so I doing the best I can to speak in full english. And no I am not going to chase aftter him then I shall just leave it and see what happens but what if he does try it on again ? Do I do it and be in this position agen because I like him ? Or do I turn him down and send the wrong signals ?

Do what again. Get you drunk?
Don't let this boy take advantage of you.
He has ignored you after this incident. That should tell you that you are not that important to him.
If he comes at you again, tell him you are not interested.
You don't let someone take advantage of you just because you like him.

Well my boyfriend stayed at my house last nyt but when I woke up this morning he was gone so he had gone down stairs unlocked my front door and gone and I don't no why, when or where he's gone and he isn't answering his fone and I have textd him loads 2 let him no it me ringing him and he not answering. It's a chance he could be asleep but what do I do now ?

Did you have sex with him?

It could be a case that he got what he wanted and he's done with you.

Who knows? Why are you so worried anyway?

Maybe he's doing something that doesn't involve you i.e. hanging with mates and doesn't want you annoying him with texts and ringing.

Edit: Sorry should have asked how old you both are?

Could I ask how long your dating?

His phone may need to be charged,he may have left it somewhere and does not realise your ringing.

BUT, the clincher here is,why are you trying to call him? What's wrong?

When he does look at his phone he's going to see missed calls from you and wonder what the hell is going on!

There's not much else I can offer you in the way of advice until you give a little more information.

I will add,don't be so needy!

I'm 15 he's 17 and been going out for him 4 abwt 3 weeks and I've had sex with him on more than this accasion and he just went out my house though when I'm asleep and we had an argument last nyt and he couldn't look at me so think he might of cheeated on me on fridaii but we made up and I fell asleep with his arms around me and woke up with him gone ?


3 weeks and no his fone is ringing he just not answering and I've textd him 2 explain why I am ringing him... and I'm ringing him because he was not there when I woke up and I don't no why or where he is