How much does it hurt to have sex the first time?

For a girl, sex may hurt. It all depends on certain factors like how tight you are and how wide your partners penis is
But I really hope that the "12" in your name is your age, because 12 is too young for sex

The first sexual experience does not hurt as bad as it does giving birth. Remember that. Sex = pregnancy

Since you are posting in the "teens" section I will assume that you're a teenager.

Sex is something that should only be done when the person is emotionally, physically, and financially ready to raise a child.

It isn't like what you read about or see in movies. It's usually akward and in some cases it hurts.

OP is 14.

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Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny

OP is 14.

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Still too young to have sex.

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Originally Posted by ChihuahuaMomma

Still too young to have sex.

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Way too young.

No not at all but it is scary!

14...

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Originally Posted by meecy12

How much does it hurt to have sex the first time?

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I think you should control yourself and wait.

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Originally Posted by jrsg

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That's how old my car is, and she's too young for sex... so YOU, my dear. Far too young.

My car's only 4 years old... so... still a baby, just barely learning how to walk.

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Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny

My car's only 4 years old...so...still a baby, just barely learning how to walk.

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Wrong, oh so wrong.

If it helps? NO! Definitely wear and condom and use birth control. If you can't do that, don't have sex.

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Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny

My car's only 4 years old...so...still a baby, just barely learning how to walk.

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If your car is walking, you're not using it right.

Last week I delivered a baby to a 14 year old mother. She had all sorts of complications due to her age. Last night she was back in our L&D department due to post-partum complications, again due to her age.

She did not think she could get pregnant the first time she had sex, yet she did. She also thought that 14 year olds cannot get pregnant. They DO!!

Please rethink your decision to have sex until you are older and can deal with the consequences of pregnancy, labor & delivery, as well as motherhood.

Then why are you asking?

I was curious. None of my friends are virgins, and they've all told me different things.

That's because everyone's experience is different.