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    Wrekkin16 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 1, 2010, 02:48 PM
    Lost In Love.
    I Am Currently In A Relationship With A Girl. I Am A 16 Year Old Girl. Before My Girlfriend Now, I Have An Ex I Was With Her For 2 Years On & Off My World Revolved Around Her And Only Her She Is My First Love I Still Love Her I Have Tried Over And Over To Get Over Her But I Can't Seem To Do That! I Think About Her Constantly Even When I'm With My Girlfriend. Can Anybody Give Me Any Suggestions On How To Get Over Her Please & Thank You
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    Jun 1, 2010, 04:22 PM

    Well, clearly you weren't ready for another relationship. How long ago did you & your ex break up?

    Rushing into new relationships after heartbreak only kills it. Keep yourself busy & go out with friends. Join a book club, ski club, or whatever kind of hobbies you have club. Work out. If you find yourself thinking about her, consciously divert your thoughts to something else. In time, you'll feel your heart healing.

    And anyway, you should enjoy your age & develop friendships. There is plenty of time in college & in the rest of life to pursue relationships with others.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Jun 2, 2010, 08:20 AM

    You didn't take the time to heal properly, after your break up, so you still have an attachment that's hard to break. Read the stickies at the beginning of the relationship forum.
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