I know and believe what my purpose in life is,
Do you know yours?
And whatever you believe, could you please explain how have you reached this conclusion?
Thank you in advance for all your thoughts! :)
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I know and believe what my purpose in life is,
Do you know yours?
And whatever you believe, could you please explain how have you reached this conclusion?
Thank you in advance for all your thoughts! :)
This is just out of curiosity as there are different ways of thinking and this forum has people from all walks of life and from different countries and beliefs.
Hope to hear your thoughts!
My purpose...
It is so easy to tell other people what I think their purpose is in my eyes, but my own purpose, well, I think I am still figuring it out. Maybe I will never know until I am on my death bed. But, When the time comes (not that I am not doing this now) I want to volunteer my time for the needy and to children that are needing that little extra touch to make a smile form on their face. Even if it for one moment, if I can make that difference, that is what it will be..
For now, my purpose is to raise my children, take care of my husband, and love people that I come in contact with. And clean my dang house, as it always seems to be in need of some sort of cleaning!
Peace be with you all. Peace be with your purpose! And hugs all around!
Startover22
I believe my purpose in life is to fulfil all rightousness :)
My purpose in life to raise great kids.
My purpose in life is to be the best person I can be, and to give and receive love.
Thank you, for your contribution,but I was hoping to hear an explanation of how each one of you came to the conclusion?
:)
Like things that have happened to us to make us do what we want to? Or actually feel like we have a calling rather?Quote:
Originally Posted by firmbeliever
Hey Start,Quote:
Originally Posted by startover22
Both what happened to make you believe your purpose is as you believe or if you think you had a calling then I would love to hear about that too.:)
Thanks
Divorced parents, having a step mother (a selfish one), brothers and sisters, drugs, being permiscuous when I was young, not for fun but maybe for the love, (still haven't figured that one out), having children of my own, getting married, and there are so many more people and things that have come about in my life to make me think I out of give a helping hand. Not only the fact that it helps people but it helps me.
It has been this way since I was little, I have had dreams of myself being a giver, I have had dreams of myself doing good things, while I was asleep and awake! So, for last I would like to say even though I am very confused about my faith sometimes... I honestly think God has played an enormous part in my life, I have been tested to the limits, with near death, rape, child abuse and all, I have a feeling if it weren't for God, and my prayers to him (whether people think he doesn't or does exist) my prayers helped me through things to make me feel like I had someone by my side. THE WHOLE TIME!
Explanation: Actually having kids.Quote:
Originally Posted by NeedKarma
I really don't sit down and ponder 'what is my purpose, what is my purpose', I simply live my life. There's enough to keep one busy with house, wife, kids, job, social life, family, sports, etc.
I think the point of life... well there is none. Were all thrown on this earth to figure stuff out, learn and grow on our own. What you end up like is random. There can't be a point to life when so many people get the short end of the stick and everyone else gets the better deal... called ufair unjust and pointless lol. You wake up, do daily things, have a laugh and then go to sleep. Do it all again the next day.
Hey NeedKarma,Quote:
Originally Posted by NeedKarma
I agree we don't sit and ponder what our purpose is... which is why I asked the question in the first place,some of us know right away what we were meant to do, while many others are in a state where they have no idea what it is they wish to accomplish or they are required to do...
I am hoping to hear a lot of different views.
NK Thanks for sharing:)
What if you had no job, family life, sports, wife, social life, etc.. Than what would your purpose be? YOu would have plenty of time to think about it then, right? I guess the point is, why are we here? To work and pay bills just seems kind of an empty life. To enjoy your family and spend time with them, maybe that is what you meant? If it isn't your purpose, than why have a family at all?
Start, you do inspire me so much to find joy, even in the worst of things. Thank you for sharing that.
Long time ago, sweet, and like I always say... Love is All Around You. It was even there through all those times! You just have to look and them BAM it get's you.
Aww Firm, I am so touched by you sweet.
You too are an inspiration for those who know you well and know how far you have come since you called yourself shatteredsoul.Quote:
Originally Posted by shatteredsoul
That is a purpose in life, to build better lifes for ourselves, to rise up from hardship, to find the courage to move on...
These are what gives life meaning.
I've had so many blessings since God reminded me I had the free choice to follow his path, and just do a few simple things.
To take care of this world so our children will have somewhere to live, and pass a good place on to their children, and help them know how to do that.
If that's your situation then I'm sure you've found a different answer to his question. I simply posted mine. I'm sorry if are uncomfortable with it but it is my life after all.Quote:
Originally Posted by shatteredsoul
Hey Earthman,Quote:
Originally Posted by talaniman
I agree the hard part is ""help them know how to do that"..
And NK I am a she, just for your info:D
shatteredsoul agrees: Nothing is random, we choose our reality as we choose how to live in it.
That is your point of veiw. I personally think everything in life is random. Many people can't choose their "own reality" they get stuck living in something that has no meaning or point. Like I said you wake up, go to work, come home, go to bed just to do it the next day. Boring if u ask me.
That's 'cause your life revolves uniquely around yourself. Other than your job you probably have no other responsibilities and people that you socialize with.Quote:
Originally Posted by Raynefreak
I haven't got a job because if you must know we don't have money for a second car, hubby works 24/7 and I clean house. So what if I don't have anything to do? That makes me a bad person? I talk to my hubby when he's not at work and gives me the time of day. Don't sund all wise if you don't know me, I was giving my honest opinion. And why don't I have any friends othr then my fiancé? Because when I left school they left too because they weren't real friends. You make it sound like I'm selfish.. how? I think more of my finace then myself. I'm offened to even be called selfish. You don't know me.. and the horride life I had or have still in some ways.Quote:
Originally Posted by NeedKarma
This reflests how I feel about my point in life. Right now I have none, or if at all its to do the bidding of my fiancé who's never around to begin with. Hopefully that will change someday.
You said your life is boring - hey life is what you make it.
Hey Ray,Quote:
Originally Posted by Raynefreak
Sorry to hear that your life seems bleak to you... Hope you find your path to peace (peace of the soul that is.. )
Mine is not as bad but there are times that get me down, but I just look at the bright side...
I have my senses intact as yet,I am healthier than most I know,and the best part is that I believe in a life after death and I hope I am working towards a wonderful life in the Hereafter... :)
Hey Rayne, I don't think you are a bad person and I don't think you are boring. I think you are stuck in a rut and frustrated with your situation. You seem lonely and isolated from friends and that is a difficult thing to endure. Part of what I meant by choosing your reality means, whatever you want to see is true is and however you see yourself and your life, become your reality. I think things will get better, and I am sorry you are struggling and working so hard. It is so difficult being young and married. Maybe find small ways to enjoy your life for now, or to work toward something you would like to do. Anyway, you have friends here and they can support you and help you get through the difficult times until things begin to get better. I sure hope they do.
Yes, Rayne, you sure have friends here to help you along your way... I have a few suggestions if you want to hear them, we can start another thread for it though cause it doesn't belong here... Just PM me if you want to talk. Hugs, Start
Purpose in life... I used to wonder why I went through all I did growing up and how I came to some of the jobs I had. While they were good jobs and I learned quite a bit, it did not seem to me to fit my long term goal, which was to be a psychotherapist. I did not get my PhD that was SO important to me. Instead my path lead to working in hospitals and also with children and adults with developmental disabilities and well as people with emotional disorders. Got married, had children, worked, home, etc.
Then I met the little boy who was to become my youngest son and he was in such need of a family who accepted him just as he was and all that he was. The light did not go on at the first meeting but the second weekend he was with us the bulb switched on and I realized why I had been where I had been in life. It was a preparation for Brandon. He would need everything I had learned and then some. I do not get it "right" all the time, by no means am I the perfect Mom, but with the grace of God, I do my best. I know someday Brandon will be more independent of me, either in a group home or in his own apartment with 24 hr staff. May I have my best.
Everyone has a purpose in life. When you find and are fulfilling yours you feel complete and life runs smoothly.
The Key is to find your path in life
Create a personal mission statement. Having this gives you a template of purpose which can be used evoke clarity about the path you choose to follow. Use the information you have come up with in the previous steps of this process. Find ways to orchestrate your life in a manner which supports your mission.
Reach out to others who may be able to help you in creating your dream. This includes family, friends, or someone who has a job you aspire to. When in doubt, think about how you could do something instead of why you can't so you begin to see the limitless possibilities the universe can provide to help your life run smoothly. Have faith when you ask for assistance in understanding and realizing you dreams, miraculous events can occur.
Whatever you choose to do-DO YOUR BEST AND BE WILLING TO WORK YOUR WAY UP!;)
My purpose is to be a Bible teacher and to take the Word of God to whoever will hear it. My story is a long one in which Jesus Christ had been wooing me for years and after 49 years and having not accepted Him, He took action and came to me personally. He commanded me to study the Bible for 5 years and then He opened the door for me to lead our Bible class. Since then I have taught the Bible in two countries. I am currently teaching the Bible on Tuesdays and Thursdays at 6 P.M.
How I came to understand my purpose, is an ongoing process for me. It began with becoming a mother for the first time and with all of the love it brought out of me. I felt so incredibly overwhelmed with joy when I held my daughter. I felt God's love for me and a new love for myself. I realized I wanted to be a good person and to show her how to love one another. This way she can use her gifts wisely and create a world that is more compassionate and kind. I have had many struggles and heartaches along the way. I wear my heart on my sleeve and it has been dragged through the mud several times. I learned that people are sometimes going to be hurtful and disappoint me, but that doesn't mean that they are bad and I don't have to take it personally. I learned through loss that being attached to things isn't helpful and letting go is easier on the soul. I experienced much grief and sorrow during the deaths of loved ones and I learned I have to let go of anger and forgive those who don't understand the pain and anguish they cause. The experiences in particular don't matter, but how I grow and evolve from them do. I am continuously trying to understand myself and become more aware of how I should live out my purpose. Hopefully, I will make my children proud and leave them a legacy of love.
No clue.
All that I can say for sure is to quote something I read once about what the purpose of life is... "The purpose of life is a life of purpose".
That's a nice way of putting it..Quote:
Originally Posted by deist
A life full of good purpose!
The purpose of life is to procreate and perpetuate itself... period.
Chek,Quote:
Originally Posted by chek101
Not to sound dumb, but could you elaborate on "perpetuate itself"?
Thanks
You may be right.Quote:
Originally Posted by chek101
I figure my purpose at the moment is to just live, basically because I can't see it leading me in any sort of direction
Albear,Quote:
Originally Posted by albear
You sound a little lost,
Hope you find your path to peace...
As that is what each of us searches for knowingly or unknowingly...
Yea me too,but I've lost my compass which makes things difficultQuote:
Originally Posted by firmbeliever
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