Well called!
They are backed up & they are still on November cases ,So I will wait & check in every month until it happens!

Well called the court again!
After a lengthy conversation with the civil court clerk .
I explained I did not get a copy of signed order. pay my fee & get a copy.
By reading it I could tell the judge didn’t even give my proposed order a chance
He signed this order eights days after my court day. According to the court paperwork
I had ten days to respond & I submitted mine on the ninth day.
Small victory but I will take it !So I wait & see if they serve me again!
Go from there!
In the mean time I will continue to read up on everything about the subject!
Thank you ! For all the help!

When I have a pet peeve I post it and so when something REALLY GOOD happens, I post that, too.

Motherofmany sent me a PM thanking me - doesn't happen often but I was very, very pleased.

We all contribute to the answers and so the thank you belongs in part to all of us and I thought "you" would like to know.

Seldom does anyone say thank you - but to take the time to contact me. Amazing and gratifying!