Do you have the money to pay the debt if you lose?
Depending on the size of the debt, you may be better off hiring an attorney.
The people here can give you advice, that's it.
You also put down one of the people that could help you and has helped you the most, Judy. She knows her stuff, but you don't want to hear what she has to say.
Try to remember that we all volunteer on this site, we don't get paid to do this, we do it in our free time because we want to help.
Your best bet is an attorney, that's just the way it is and that's the best advice anyone can offer you.
Good luck.