Originally Posted by s_cianci
Jimmy, this is getting to be nothing more than a silly drama and you're partially responsible for contributing to it. Whatever you had once with this person is over, so just drop it and let it go. Ignore her as if she's disappeared from the face of the earth. Pretend in your own mind that she doesn't exist any more and respond accordingly. Delete her e-mails, move them to your SPAM folder and don't even look at them. Don't answer any calls from her and if she knocks on your door don't answer. If she continues to pursue you then charge her with harassment and get a restraining order against her. She has no intention whatsoever of suing you over the $1000 and is just desperately trying to reach out at you one way or another. You obviously hurt her ego by breaking up with her and she wants to have the last word. Furthermore, I think you may be enjoying the power that this gives you, knowing that this woman is obsessing over you, even though you didn't deliberately seek for it to be that way. While it may be tempting to take it all in, doing so only fuels the fire. Forget her, like I said she's disappeared from the face of the earth and insist that she regards you in the same manner. If she won't, then you take legitimate legal action against her.
