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Originally Posted by lighterrr

choco i am trying to understand you but my simple mind can't get it, i saw the tyra show and im a black women and it did nothing for me I was like whatever! he show wont stop me from lightening or as the africans in africa call it "skin toning"

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I understand that completey cause I still feel the need to lighten cause I haven't started yet it just to caution pepole about the dangers the odds could be one of us if we spend years bleaching do you use natural skin lightners or is it vitually impossible to with black skin ? Sorry if I sound preachy with my before comments it just that I'm two states of mind one morning I could wake up and feel no need to lightn but most of the time I look at myself and the only thing wrong me is my skintone but some ple have complexities with themselves it could be more than just be more than just my skintone( although I don't think its that) I posted this thread up cause I hate hearing similar people or peple ruplsed at there dark skin not just on this thread but in life to me it feels like I need to change these attitudes

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Originally Posted by chocobrownie

i understand that completey cause i still feel the need to lighten cause i havent started yet it just to caution pepole about the dangers the odds could be one of us if we spend years bleaching do you use natural skin lightners or is it vitually impossible to with black skin ? sorry if i sound preachy with my b4 comments it just that i'm two states of mind one morning i could wake up and feel no need to lightn but most of the time i look at myself and the only thing wrong me is my skintone but some ple have complexities with themself it could be more than just be more than just my skintone( although i dnt think its that) I posted this thread up cause I hate hearing similar people or peple ruplsed at there dark skin not just on this thread but in life to me it feels like i need to change these attitudes

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Chocobrownie you do not have to change nor let anyone pressure you into doing so. When being happy with yourself, then there is nothing to change.