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    Jun 9, 2007, 12:08 AM
    Shy to ask
    When me and my boyfriend have sex he is very rough and the last coupl of days I've been dry but now I have bumps that are sore is that common??
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    Jun 9, 2007, 12:09 AM
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    Jun 9, 2007, 01:44 AM
    What kind of bumps. Are they tiny and white, please describe. Are they on the lips of the vagina or on the inside.

    Your boyfriend should know better. Especially when dry because it can cause a lot of pain and friction.

    Please answer back, and we can not be 100 percent sure what it is unless there is a physical exam, so Please see your doctor or gynocologist.

    Joe
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    Jun 9, 2007, 10:56 AM
    I agree with Joe. We don't know what kind of bumps, so we can't really give much advice. The best advice we can give is to see a doctor. Don't be embarrassed to ask your gynecologist. They have seen everything. In the future, if you are typically very dry you need to be using a lubrication. You can cause rips and tears, and your vagina is a very sensitive area. There is also a lot of bacteria there, and having open tears can cause an infection.

    Also, if you shave, and the bumps are on the outside of your vagina where you shave it could be ingrown hairs. See your doctor!
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    Jun 9, 2007, 11:28 AM
    By all means, see your doctor. Maybe your doctor will say to you what you cannot say to your boyfriend. Perhaps then you can say what is needed to your boyfriend.

    Do not ever allow someone to be rough with you. Dry sex is very painful, how inconsiderate of him not to care, not to notice. You have go to speak up with him.

    But get to the doctor and get those bumps checked out. Could be something infectious.
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