Originally Posted by
ninjanails
wow I hate that #1 you put this on the enternet ask your momm or aunt or cousin I try to help people with their problems but this is just stupid I mean really I don't want to hear that's it was in the heat of the moment I have and a aunt who has lost 2 babies ans one of them she lost a four and a half months pregnant now I'm not saying this child is a mistake but think about it ,people are out there TRYING and FAILING to have a baby and you just go out and in all carlessness have unprtected sex with a FRIEND now if it was your BOYFRIEND it MIGHT be more understandabell am I right?okay well you know what I feel for you I do really but please if your not pregnant now wait your life will be easier I promise go to school get an job get mairred buy a house then have ababy and if you are gett a job tell the dad if he wants to be a part great congrats but if not have full name address birth date and place of employment ( if any) and demand child support good luck
Not sure where to start with this post. People come to this site and post on the
internet because sometimes they feel that they have no where else to go. So, we are all here for a reason, and that is to help. I am sorry your aunt is having a hard time conceiving, and you are right about all the people out there who are trying and failing, and I understand how this can feel like a slap in the face to some, but again, we are here to help. If you don't want to respond to the question for morale obligation, fine, don't respond. But no one deserves to be talked down to in a condescending attitude. There is a respectful way to get your point across, but to judge her on her actions is unfair.
I am not sure what point you were trying to make with this sentence:
ababy and if you are gett a job tell the dad if he wants to be a part great congrats but if not have full name address birth date and place of employment ( if any) and demand child support good luck
Are you implying that the OP needs to find a boyfriend in order to have a baby? Regardless of how he feels? Are you saying that she needs to have a boyfriend in order to have a baby out of wedlock, not use protection and purposely get pregnant, and then if he does not want to have a baby, take him for all he's got? Wow, that is some of the worst advice I have ever heard! That's what gives single mothers a bad name and a bad rap, and I resent that comment as a single mom filing for child support. You make it seem so trashy!
To the OP, yes if youa re having sex you could be pregnant. Do a home pregnancy test, or make an appointment with your doctor to find out for sure. If you are not wanting to get pregnant, then get on some protection girl! There are just too many options this day in age to be not on any form of birth control! Safe sex!
